My boyfriend wanted to have sex last night but we didnt have a condom and I didnt want to get pregnant. He told me that if we did it more than 5 times in one night, that all the thrusting would shake the fetus too much for it to live and so I wouldnt get pregnant. Is that true?
2007-02-12 17:25:07 · 29 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
LMAO, you can't be serious!
HE WAS LYING TO YOU! NO IT'S NOT TRUE
LEARN SEX ED AND USE CONDOMS EVERYTIME
2007-02-12 17:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, that isn't true. If anything it makes it easier to get pregnant. This might scare you, but it sounds like you need to know this, so here goes...the vagina is actually an inhospitable place for semen. Once you've had sex the body's natural "defense" system gets busy attacking the "deposit". So if you have intercourse again right away there isn't as much keeping the sperm from reaching the fallopian tubes, which is where insemination occurs. Five times and it'd be like an express lane in there.
And there is no fetus to "shake" during sex, unless you're already pregnant. The egg gets fertilized, it floats down to the uterus from the fallopian tubes and attaches itself to the uterine lining. This is not instantaneous, it can take a couple days. Here it will eventually form placenta and a baby will grow.
Honey, what are you doing having sex if you don't know how it works?
If you're a minor, and you end up thinking you're pregnant, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE tell your parents, or another adult you can trust, right away.
I'll be thinking about you.
2007-02-12 17:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by HomeGrown 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT true.
The exact opposite, in fact. The frequent thrusting and increased amounts of semen would instead help shove the sperm into the womb. Implantation of a fertilized egg doesn't happen for a bit after fertilization - shaking it about too much to live? That's just silly.
Further, the sperm from the 2nd and later ejaculate have a higher motility than those from the 1st, again, increasing your odds.
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM unless you WANT to get pregnant or you're on some alternative BC method with a long-term stable, single, disease-free partner.
Orion
2007-02-12 17:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Orion 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be frank, if you have to actually ask this question then you shouldn't be having sex.
Of course the answer is NO - the opposite in fact.
Bottom line - you should not be having unprotected sex at all, with anyone, any time, however many times a night your boyfriend is kidding himself he can get it up and get it off.
Before you let this boy touch you again, both of you should get yourselves to a doctor or family planning clinic and learn about your bodies, about sex, about contraception, about STD's, about HIV, about pregnancy, and about the consequences of all of this.
Only then, when you are fully informed, are you able to make a mature decision about whether you shoud be having a sexual relationship, which is a big responsibility considering where it can take you.
Don't let anyone take advantage of you like this. You deserve better than this.
2007-02-12 18:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats absurd!! Tell your boyfriend he is an idiot! Having sex five times in one night would make it five times more likley you would get pregnant. There isn't a fetus yet to shake. It would be that much more sperm trying to get to your egg.
2007-02-12 17:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by priss879 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, get a new boyfriend! He was just trying to manipulate you into having sex. How selfish to put you at risk of getting pregnant...he'll probably be gone if you did get pregnant! Hookers always end up pregnant, you think they don't have a lot of sex?
2007-02-16 05:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by laineyette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a serious question? In California, sex ed. in mandatory in the 5th & 6th AND 7th grades. How old r u guys? Honey, I am glad u asked if u really didn't know. Sometimes we know and we do it anyway. But I think u got ur answer here, no?
2007-02-14 05:41:33 · answer #7 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, having sex that many times in one night increases your chance to get pregnant.
Your boyfriend is a liar.
2007-02-12 18:17:35 · answer #8 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not true...Sounds to me like your boyfriend has found himself one gullible girlfriend who doesn't have a clue. If you don't know ANYTHING about the your own reproductive system what the HELL are you doing having sex? Get an education before you become another statistic and STOP having sex until you do...(rolls her eyes knowing there's another family on welfare in the making)
2007-02-12 17:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is not true, it will increase the chances of you getting pregnant. Get yourself some condoms and NEVER have unprotected sex again
2007-02-12 17:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lies lies lies. If he didn't tell you that lame story, would you have had sex with him 5 times last night??? I highly doubt it. He told you that so he could get more nooky. Guys will say anything to get laid. If you don't know that by now, you will find out soon.
2007-02-12 19:45:25 · answer #11 · answered by lexus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋