im a girl and i have a really close friend thats also a girl.she gets mad when i talk to my other friends that r girls.she acts like they r gonna take me away from her.the other day i was walkin up some stairs and she called my phone i didnt answer it.when i got up the stairs she came walkin around the corner.she wanted to know where i was.she will walk all the way across the building where we work just to come get me for break.when she sees me talkin and laughin with my other friends she gives me the death look.she will start walkin really close to me if my other friends r around.she will stare at me all the time when im not lookin at her and then when i look up she looks away really fast.she laughs at everything i say.she will always ask me if im ok and wants me to wait for her my the bathroom and all that.one day she told me shes never been with a girl but doesnt know if she will ever try it. anyone have ways to tell if shes bi.signs hints or body language help plz let me know
2007-02-12 17:12:25 · 2 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe you should just ask her. And really, what does it matter? The issue here is not one of sexuality, but of boundaries.
If she's being intrusive and possessive, find a polite way of reminding her that you have other friends and it would be better for your friendship with her if she backed off a little.
2007-02-12 17:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be straight and have a crush on you, she could be bi or gay and have a crush on you. There is only one sure fire way of knowing - ASK HER.
If you're at all uncomfortable about how she behaves around you - TELL HER.
2007-02-12 23:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋