2 live 4 and i just feel dead snd i start cryin in class and every1 teases me cuz they dont no why but jack and hes just really mean bout it and i really want 2 talk 2 my brother about it but ever scince they devorced hes locked himself in sports and his room and iv locked mydelf in the tv room eatin chocolate
2007-02-12 17:09:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im 2 scared 2 talk 2 my parents
2007-02-12 17:15:55 · update #1
Sounds like you need someone to listen to you. There are people out there who can help. Check out http://www.covenanthouse.org/nineline/index.html for instance. There are lots of others.
2007-02-12 17:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by i♥sf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've got a lot bottled up inside of you & you need to find someone you look up to, to sit down & tell them how you are feeling right now. Just getting it off your chest can be a big relief, in itself. It's easy to lock yourself in a room but really, what good does that do? It only perpetuates the problem. Try to get out & take walks daily or engage in some type of exercise. It will help you to focus your thoughts on other things for the time being. Too bad Jack is not more understanding of what you're going through right now. He's supposed to be your friend but since he's not there for you, find someone else who cares & is willing to lend you their ear. Keep your chin up! Brighter days are ahead for you.
2007-02-19 04:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids always get hurt when parents end up in divorce,but sweetie it is not your fault nor your brother.Sometimes adult do stupid thing and they never really realize the circumstances that might have when it comes to their kids.
Before x-mas 2006,I found out that my husband of 22 years was having an affair to this woman that he met on christiancafe dating site. He told me that he fell in love with this woman who also still married,only knew her for over 2 months,which I've pend my life with him for so many years.I was hurt as well as my 3 kids,but I set aside my pain because of my kids.I told my kids that it wasn't their fault why their father had an affair. I was thinking of divorce as well when I found out.What I didn't know was his been thinking separation for a long time without me knowing it.
So you see my dear,theres a lot of reason why adult do stupid things but it doesn't have anything to do with you or your brother.Do find someone to talk to if you casn't talk to your mom or step father, if you cant talk to your brother, at least try to see if you can help him also,cause if he dont let his anger out, it will distroy him as well as you.....good luck and I hope that sooner but not later the two of you can find peace.............bless you and your brother..
2007-02-20 03:10:30 · answer #3 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 07:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does their getting a divorce have to do with you?
They still love you.
They just can't live together.
Would you rather they stay together for the "sake of the kids" only to me miserable and cause drama and tension around the house?
They want a divorce... I am sure they did not just decide this over dessert one night.
It is not your fault and you should just go with the flow.
2007-02-12 17:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if you can try to talk to your brother. It sounds like you to need each other more than ever right now. If you can't talk to him do you have a friend that you can trust and feel comfortable enough to talk to? Just try to find someone to talk to. Don't hold it in. Bad idea.
2007-02-20 13:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, talk to someone! If not your folks then a teacher or councilor at school! But talk to someone. Like tomorrow!
God Bless
2007-02-19 06:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by knight_janette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to them..it is not good to keep your feelings bottle up for a long time. I hope things work out for you.
2007-02-18 15:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cotton C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the House.take a ride a walk. eating all that candy is going to get you FAT.that's the way life is (sorry) all you can do is the beat you can.at least you have 2 moms. i lost mine.
2007-02-12 17:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you there. I, at age 38, have parents who have been married for 39 years.
2007-02-19 10:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋