Suicide...?

Question

Is it bad to think about it? I do...is that bad? i dont like my life...

Answer 1

Suicide is very selfish because you will hurt other people who care about you. If you don't like your life then know this..Your life will constantly be changing and will be completely different in the future. I know this because I am 55 and feel as though I have lived about 5 completely different and distinct life times. Also there are many things you can change immediately if you just get off you *** and do it. You don't have to take such drastic action. If you hate your job then quit and try something else, if you are sick and tired of your girlfriend then break it off. If you don't have one then be patient, you will have someday. If you don't like where you live then move. The trick is to take action instead of sitting around feeling sorry for yourself. Good luck buddy.

Answer 2

Suicide.... bad to think about it....? There is no human way when we become upset with our lives that we can avoid what our mind thinks. However when our mind begins to slide in that direction we need to look at any and all positive aspects of our lives. You were put here for a reason... a life's path. It is not our choice, we have to do what is right to complete our life's path. Life is not going to be easy and very few people you come across are going to care less. But that is not your problem, that is their problem. You do what is right and help as many as possible and you will be headed on the right path. Suicide is the cheaters way out... is that how you would like to be remembered? I don't think so. Remember, life will be good and bad. Everything has two sides, it helps balance the world. If you are served lemons... make lemonade.

Answer 3

I use to be like that my life has been pretty tough. But i get through it. I take it a day at a time. I always have something going haywire in my life all the time. Things are always going wrong but i manage somehow. When i get really low i talk to God just knowing that he is listening makes me feel better. And when and if i feel suicidal i think about how that would make God feel if i did it and then i think about all the wrong that has been done to him and i do not want to add to that list. Also i think about how others have it worse than me. So i carry on and manage and also i think about how i know Soon God will take care of this wicked world and it will be better because God promises it will be and God cannot lie. So i know if i hang in there it will be OK. So you hang in there because i care and God cares so you hang in there and ask God to help you and guide you in the right direction. If you ask him he will be there for you Draw close to God and he will draw close to you.

Answer 4

well i think it is bad to think about it because god gave u life to make somethin out of yourself. Life is precious and u should enjoy every moment of it. How do u think your family would feel if u killed yourself. Would u want to make them miserable like that. Find u somebody u can have fun with or talk to and it would take your mind off of suicide. Trust me. If u dont think so go to someone u trust and let them know whats going on. Please dont sit there and do nothing about it. Good Luck

Answer 5

It's normal to think about it once in a while, but not normal to dwell on it/actually make plans to go through with it.

It's really true that, unless you are a hermit whose existence nobody even knows, suicide is incredibly selfish. You'd be gone without positive/negative thoughts of any kind. What about the people who love and care about you, even if they don't show it properly, who get to live the rest of their lives guiltily wondering how they could have made you so desperately unhappy.

Answer 6

It's not good thing to think about. You need to figure out what it is about your life that you don't like and make a plan to change it. Set goals for yourself and stick with it! Everyone at some point in there life is not happy, but you will get thru it. Everything gets worse before it gets better and everything happens for a reason. So start making changes!

Answer 7

well....in a religious way.,...if you believe in God...it isn't good to think about suicide because God gave you that life to live it....but if you aren't religious or don't believe in God then thinking about Suicide can be like not a big thing but if you ahve a family that cares about you....i recommend you don't even go there....to help think about good things in your lfe and what you want to do in life that wouldn't make it soo bad....thenm you actually try to do what you want...unless it is bad....

Answer 8

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. The next time you think about sucide, try thinking of something you've always wanted to do and how to go about doing it.

Answer 9

It kind of is bad to think about it...well actually it is.
If you do then I suggest you see a doctor or if you don't want to do that then talk to someone you really trust and you think can help you.
whatevers bothering you cant be that bad.
life goes on.
your days may as well get better you'll never know if you end it all.
good luck

Answer 10

No, thunder, it isn't a bad thing to think about. Not at all. It's quite normal. Nearly everyone has had the thought cross their mind. What matters is what you decide to do with these thoughts. I don't know how old you are, but if you dislike your life so much what are some changes you can make within yourself to tolerate sadness, rejection, a broken heart, etc. Suicide is not an answer - you are on this life journey for a reason. You may not be at all aware of that reason but, trust me, there is one. I'm not sure of your age, but you deserve a wife and children to love and teach and hang out with. Try some deep breathing and meditate in a quiet candlelit room. You may not be able to change others, kiddo, but you can change your perceptions of them and come to better understand their limitations.

If you're feeling desperate and you've been depressed longer than a couple of weeks you should go to a counselor, teacher, relative, therapist, or best friend and talk to them about how you're feeling. There is so much ridiculous stigma attached to therapy but I can tell you that without it I may have died a few years ago. Honestly. Awful 29 years. These past three have been amazing. Things are still hard and so many of my old fears are still there, but day by day they diminish. You must talk to someone, thunder. Keeping it in is what may drive you to suicidal thoughts. There are so many ways in which to feel better - I wish I knew more about you so I could give you some resources that might help. The only thing I can give you is what I've learned. Problems are temporary, however huge and looming they may seem right now. Looking for the positive in everything is a remedy as is understanding that some people only know what they have been taught and are struggling to do their best despite the difficulty of their circumstances. My parents and I could not get along. They were very emotionally abusive and my self-esteem was just shot by the time I finished high school and entered college. I could barely make it through the first semester. I moved to another state and got into situations that were just as bad as home. My family was ashamed of me for not finishing college. I became deeply depressed and began having terrible panic attacks. I could hardly sleep and subsisted on about two real hours of sleep a night. The days got worse and seemed far longer. It came to a point that I was crying and/or shaking all day, every day. I wanted to kill myself. Finally, I realized that there was help to be had if one is willing to keep his or her eyes open. I began seeing an absolutely incredible, kind therapist. Not everyone may be "saved" as such, but it is sooo important you talk to someone about how and what you're feeling. At 32, I recognize my parent's limitations and understand I can love them but never change them. We simply cannot be around one another for more than a day. They live across the country now and we get along better than ever =) They are good people not always trying their best. I have come to expect less and we get along beautifully. I love them. I also know I will make a difference in the world by treating others with the compassion and kindness I didn't find at home.

I, for one, am glad you are alive. Buck up, kiddo. You're meant to be here.

"Desiderata" - Max Ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and the haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender,
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even to the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons;
they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain or bitter,
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs,
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals,
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love,
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment,
it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life,
keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

All the happiness in the world to you.