Well, she is my best friend, but unfortunate she know a girl online and she start to love her deeply. I have try all my ways to stop her, but i fail. I don't want my friend to waste her time of beging with a girl instead of a boy. Can any1 tell me what should i do?
2007-02-12 17:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by sad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
IT'S NOT YOUR DECISION. IT'S YOUR BEST FRIEND. IF YOU WERE A REALLY FRIEND, YOU WOULD SUPPORT HER 100%. BUT IM NOT SURE WITH THE PART WHERE SHE'S MEETING A GIRL ON THE INTERNET. MAYBE THAT YOU SHOULD BE CONCERNED ABOUT.
2007-02-12 17:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by beautiful & fabolous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't, if that is her nature. If that is her nature, she is not wasting her time. Are you both young? Time will tell. An online relationship is always uncertain, however. And because it has no physical component, it's a poor way to establish your sexuality for the first time. Be patient and understanding with your friend. This may be a phase or an experiment, or it may be her true nature. Be aware that it could go either way. Be her friend in either case.
2007-02-12 17:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is really your best friend then dont try and do anything to prevent it, or it might be the start of the end of your relationship. Its 100% your friends decision to who she falls in love with give it be male/female.
Just be happy for her and let her know your going to be by her side and is there for anything she needs ex: her shoulder to cry on when things are bad or an ear to listen when things r great and u cant wait to tell someone. Just stand by her, you cant help if she is or wants to be a lesbian.
Love her for who she is, not what you want her to be.
Good Luck!
2007-02-12 17:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by channy_simon 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
unfortunately you cant do anything im sorry. If her body and mind is attracted to another chick then just let it be.. There an old saying that if you try to stop one from doing there going to do it to spite what you say. The more you say no the more she says yes.. Sit back, let the world happen around fate, let it deside what happens in the long run
2007-02-12 17:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are reasons for woman to like another woman. To help her, you need to know the reason. If, it's biologically, then there is nothing much you can do. Try to involve her in more activities with guys, if she is not by nature a lesbain, she might find a nice guy she like.
2007-02-12 17:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try and make her interrogate more with boys and frankly speaking ,you should ask her to make a boy friend .
Maybe then she would realise the true phase of life !
Good LUCK !!
DAVID.....
2007-02-12 18:40:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the nearest mental hospital or just don't be her friend anymore. I know it's hard but she chooses an immoral way of life. and I don't think you want to be around her when she is hanging around her gf....Thats just creepy.
2007-02-12 17:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol. Sorry buddy, you can't. She is going to end up with whomever she wants. Try to ecept that so that you do not loose her as a friend.
2007-02-12 17:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by diva_m3 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing you can do. Its her choice who she develops feelings for, not yours. You should be there for her regardless. You say that you are best friends. You shouldnt define your friendship by who she dates.
2007-02-12 17:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by flwrgyrl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's anything you can do. If she is lesbian, it's probably natural. You won't change her. It's going against her nature.
2007-02-12 17:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋