she is not interested in all these things.but she also don't want to hurt the feelings of that boy.
2007-02-12 16:53:11 · 8 answers · asked by jaspreet k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The girl is not interested? She should just "decline with a smile" unless she wants to marry a guy she's not interested in so as not hurt his feelings!
OK, we all agree that the girl cannot say yes.
We should also all agree that the boy is not playing fair…using Valentine’s Day as a guilt incentive, low...very low.... (but not as low as the ones who do it in public or worse, on National TV). Nobody should ever propose on Valentine’s Day because that day is for people who love each other not for people trying to get somebody to love them.
When somebody proposes on Valentine’s Day, that means that they are so sure they will be rejected that they are using this day to tilt the scale in their favor because they have nothing else and they’re desperate.
If the girl does not want to hurt the boy’s feelings, she should just be a good actress for a little while. She should not reject him right away on Valentine’s Day. She could tell him that she is so surprised and flattered and flabbergasted that she cannot make a decision because she’s so overwhelmed. She will need a few days to think about it.
Then, after a few days, when it is not Valentine’s Day anymore, she can tell the boy all the good things he has going for him that would make any girl happy except for her because she’s not quite ready for such a commitment.
2007-02-12 17:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a concept is to ask for a persons'' hand in marriage. & Marriages is 'so-suggested as' continuously. So if the female would not prefer to marry the boy, regardless of if he were to propose on Valentines' Day, the female has to decline. If she does no longer prefer to ruin his emotions, basically tell him you'll evaluate and enable him understand yet another day. do not say certain to him on Valentines' Day and the subsequent day rejects him. basically ask for your time to judge and reply him genuinely some days later.
2016-12-04 02:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alway's be honest with yourself. If you are not ready for the relationship, or possible marriage. Let him know that you think he is a great guy, and you are flattered that he thinks enough of you to want to marry you. But, however, right now, you are not ready. If he's a real gentleman, he will understand. Just make sure you are not leading him on.
2007-02-16 16:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Snobunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone needs to tell that guy that she isn't interested so he won't be embarrassed. What a blow that will be to his ego if he thinks she may say yes and its a no. Its better to have a little embarrassment then a life time of pain.
2007-02-12 17:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't be dating him if he is that into you and you don't have the same feelings, especially on Valentine's Day. Whatever you do, don't say yes if you don't mean it. If you think it is really going to happen, break it off now before you really crush him on VD.
2007-02-12 16:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he proposes her, he should take her dance, then go movies, and finally bring her home meet parents.
She don't want to hurt the feelings- ain't you no never mind, I doubt he would ever understand you.
2007-02-12 16:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are not intersted in him then be honest with him and tell him
how you feel. he will be hurt no matter what you say to him.
2007-02-12 16:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are kidding right?
you either say 'yes' or 'no'
you have already answered your own question anyway
2007-02-12 16:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by Jester 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋