What is her problem!?
The last time we talked..I messaged HER saying "How was your day?" She vented to me. That was it. For the last week, she's been ignoring all of my texts, myspace messages (reading them, but no response) and calls. I've asked her many times what the problem is...she won't answer me? I havent done ANYTHING wrong.
2007-02-12 16:50:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aww. Something had to go wrong somewhere. Or she's just really immature. Tell her if you don't want to be my friend, let me know so I can leave you alone. And so you don't have to worry about her either...
2007-02-12 16:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a very burned, cynical mood so I may be biased, but she SUCKS! My un-friend did that to me too, only it was emails. I really don't know what's wrong with these people except they are jerks and don't deserve to have ANY friends the way they're so rude and unkind, especially since we don't even think we've done anything to deserve it. It's not like I'm one of those people who sends a million emails and still she can't even respond to a serious email after a whole week! But anyway, you can try leaving her an email or phone message asking what's wrong. I tried that and got no response though, so be cautious. It seems like some people just get satisfaction playing games, making you guess what you did wrong to them in their warped minds. In an ideal world, people would be upfront and honest and would just let us know what the problem is and if they didn't want to talk about it. But no, these people feel the need to give the silent treatmnent...because they know that it works. It is the best way to hurt someone. You want to hurt someone? Ignore them. Don't acknowledge their existence. Just treat them like objects to cast aside. No, please don't ever do this. It is cruel and I think it is emotionally abusive. Are you one of those people who is a target for abuse? I sure was when I was in high school (I was bullied) and I guess I still am, even though I have not had anything like this happen to me in many years (I'm in my late 20s). I say if she's going to treat you like sh**, she doesn't deserve a friend like you. Ignore her and occupy yourself with something else until you find better people to associate with!
2007-02-12 17:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its best to see her in person next time you bump into her. It could also be that she is tired of all your messages and doesn't feel like answering. I mean if you're one of those people who send 30 text messages per day of course the person would be annoyed.
Maybe give her some time and space... if its going on for a longtime then you should really try to reach her if she is a true friend or just drop it.
2007-02-12 17:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jess3e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend like that, and I have let her go, I don't ring her or message her. My friend called me after about 6 months of not talking or anwering my msg or calls, and asked me to drive her to the shop, the next day when I called her she ignored my call and msg, so I have decided to give up. I don't need people like that in my life and neither do you. Let her come to you.
2007-02-12 16:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just needed to shut down. I did that yesterday. Ten million people called me today to see if I was OK.
2007-02-12 16:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, if you truly haven't done anything wrong she will come around. just give her time to work things out it will be o.k
2007-02-12 16:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't answer her back as quickly as she wanted you to, so now she feels like you aren't a good listener or a good friend.
2007-02-12 16:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well **** her too, girls dont realize that all the good guys are the ones in the friendzone. Theres plenty more fish in the sea bro.
2016-05-24 04:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesnt want to talk to you
2007-02-12 16:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Israel j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
search your heart, search your soul..try to think harder..you must have mentioned or done something.
2007-02-12 16:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by eden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋