I don''t regret this but i face a long distance relationship with my gf. She lives with her parents. Her parents hated me calling so we decided that we would call eachother at night when everyone is sleeping. We were very much in love and everything was running smoothly. Her parents did know about us and never suspected her. Until one day when she asked me to call her mobile was going switch off, it went like that for 3 days. So i decided to call her at home. She picked up the phone and on hearing my voice became very emotional and gave the phone to her mom. Her mom started shouting at me and told me never again to call and never to ruin her daughter''s life. She told me that i should leave her for good. No one had ever spoken to me like that before! I was shocked and didn''t know what to do, i wasn''t rude or mean or anything but simply shocked as i had supported her mom too. I never did anything wrong to my gf and never have used her, i only wanted to help her. She loves me a lot but
2007-02-12 16:41:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It almost sounds like she was looking for an easy way to break it off with you by giving the phone to her mother. If her parents don't like you or don't like you calling, that could be a lot of added stress for her which could make her living situation with her parents rather difficult. Long distance relationships are very hard and alot of times don't work out. I would move on, find someone closer to you that you can talk to without having to sneak around other people. You can have a more fulfilling relationship that way.
2007-02-12 16:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Emmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the problem with long distant relationships honey, you loose contact. If you still can't contact her any other way, as in email, or online, that it seems like you should really move on, date someone that is closer around you. Long relationships don't really last anyway. It is better to date someone that is close to you, being able to see them everyday, and plus why would you want to commit to yourself into that kind of family trouble, You should just pull out while you have the time to recover, it is only a long distant relationship, try dating someone in your city, trust me its alot more fun, that way. :]
-saphire
2007-02-12 17:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are lucky! You found out that your so-called girl friend and her mother are a couple of wierdos.
Get out and around and find a friend that does not need a head shrinker for the whole family.
Good luck and be careful next time.
2007-02-12 16:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend wanted out of this relationship instead of telling you she got it done by her telling her mother and having her mother tell you so she wont appear as the bad guy and her mother would break the relationship off.Sorry
2007-02-12 16:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like she was looking for a way to break up with you
and she used her mother to do what she should have been
a women and did her self. but know you know that she not
the women for you. time to move on and find some one else.
2007-02-12 17:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋