Im not a gay hater or anything, but what does a homosexual relationship offer besides the lustful satisfaction between two people? is it ever love of a friend just misunderstood?
and can it even compare to the kind of love withsomeone that ends up with mini yous and hims?
what makes a person homosexual- im sure its not decided at birth because babies dont even like other babies...that all happens at puberty, so doesnt it depend on how they were raised as a child?
and is there anywhere in the scriptures where God encourages relationships other than man and wife and friend and child?
and is there really true content found in a gay relationship? more happiness and joy than that of a heterosexual relationship?
resources would be great. thanks
2007-02-12 16:36:53 · 10 answers · asked by redbedhead_24 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Resourses? For what? Proof that Gays and lesbians have Satisfying families, happy and well adjusted children. Life long and enduring love and companionship?
NO, do that research yourself.
I don't need a website to tell me my ten year relationship with the LOVE OF MY LIFE, will last our lifetimes. I don't need stats or figures to tell me my son is perfectly happy, well adjusted, goal oriented and completely secure about his sexuality.
MORE happiness? No, I would never compare my happiness to someone else's because degree of happiness is purely situational and personal. I'm MORE happy than I was when I was PRETENDING to be straight, YES! Exponentially happier!
What makes a person homosexual, no one really knows, but there are PLENTY of theories....kind of like no one really knows what makes someone else straight.
Scriptures-schmiptures, I don't need some ancient book to tell me I'm doing what's best for me and my family. I don't need the approval of a bunch of dead guys.
No, my relationship with my PARTNER is NOT based solely on sex or the frequency of such. It, LIKE it's heterosexual counterparts, is based on trust, loyalty, honesty, friendships and deep emotional love.
"Mini yous and hims?"
You mean CHILDREN?
Grow up, don't be cute.
We're all adults here, or at least we're SUPPOSED TO BE.
What does having children have to do with a marriage? There are plenty of heterosexual couples who either CAN'T or WON'T have children, does that lessen the reality of their relationship?
NO!
Does my not being able to create another being through intercourse with my partner make me less of a devoted partner? HELLZ NO!
I do have a child, we have raised him together and he's perfectly fine.
She and I came from Straight parents, what does any of this have to do with anything else?
Your inferences and insinuations do indeed show a certain level of homophobia because you're just THAT ignorant of the HUMANITY of ALL.
2007-02-12 16:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by DEATH 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
What does the average heterosexual relationship offer society? The answer is nothing. Just like a straight relationship I'm as happy or unhappy with my gay relationship as anyone else depending on the timing and circumstances, but I'm not one to bail. The reason we've lasted so long is that we work at it, together. It's something we want to work at, just like anyone else. Hey, life isn't easy, thats why we have good times and bad times, without the bad we wouldn't appreciate the good.
2007-02-13 00:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
It seems as if you've already made up your mind on this subject. My partner and I have a wonderful relationship. We have been together for 7 years and have accomplished a lot together as a team. A satisfying relationship doesn't necessarily need to produce a child. There are plenty of heterosexual couples that never have children. Are their lives unfulfilled?
2007-02-13 03:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
exactly the same as a straight relationship.
If there is a possibility of a straight relationship being a love of friendship misunderstood, then their is a posibility of a gay relationship being misunderstood. This would only exist in very rare cases.
2007-02-13 00:49:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
"...and can it even compare to the kind of love withsomeone that ends up with mini yous and hims? "
Gee, thanks for dissing all of us straights who choose not to have children or are unable to. And BTW, many of my friends who have children are divorced - of the friends who are married and don't have children, none are divorced. In fact, my husband and I are going to be celebrating 20 years together this spring without any mini-mes or mini-hims. So thanks so much for dismissing and belittling our relationship.
And take your bible and scriptures and attitude and superiority and shove them where the sun don't shine.
2007-02-13 09:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Rose D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please don't tell gays and lesbians how they became gay. We have a much better view of it. We WERE born that way. Why on earth would every gay person you speak to lie about it...Collective deceit??? I am gay and have been married for 20 years..and I am monogamous ...that in itself is a lot more than a lot of straight people can attest do. I am extremely happy now that I have admitted to myself who and what I am. This is who I was meant to be. Being gay feels every bit as normal to me as being straight does to you.
2007-02-13 00:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
Iam a straight 18 year old girl and and i have read on line that same sex relationships are just as full filling
as that of a hetersexual as in they are just as happy as hetersexuals in a relationship.or it said some thing like this.
2007-02-13 00:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I would not be willing to try it , some of them say they are born gay others say they woke up one day ,and realized they were. And the biggest argument for their marriages I have heard is they want to be able to share Medical Benefits ,and have rights to the others estate in the event of ones passing just as a spouse in a hetero. marriage, and some doctor up around Ohio claims he has a pill to cure homosexuality,and wants it classified as a disease, I have too much goins on in my life to even try to keep up with confusion such as this lifestyle . And no you will not find anything in the bible to support the Gay lifestyle , there are several passages that are against it . Not sure where they are but have heard them read.
2007-02-13 00:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 6⤋
It's biological.Check out this site.It will explain everything to you.Peace!!
2007-02-13 00:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother asking about this. Most of them are going to say they were born that way. It's more mental or they choose to be that way. I will never understand gays and I never want to.
2007-02-13 00:54:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 8⤋