2007-02-12 16:34:42 · 18 answers · asked by whyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look him dead in the eye and show or tell him what you found...
2007-02-12 16:38:53 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have something you want to sit down and talk about with him. Try to keep your voice calm and keep your cool, no matter how upset you might be feeling. Tell him what this 'dirt' is you found on him and ask him for an explanation of it. Tell him you'd rather know the truth than be hanging and wondering about it. Try to be reasonable in discussing the situation. Then try to come up with a solution or compromise on the issue.
Good Luck!
2007-02-13 00:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of DIRT? it doesn't matter how you should approach him, but you should do it as soon as possible & without playing any mind games. You should talk with him about it maturely, that way you can clear things up.
2007-02-13 00:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean it off and tell him next time he's doing laundry.
Or, are you talking something else? Like he murdered someone or worse?
Send him to jail. Let the police do the approaching.
2007-02-13 00:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With your lawyer, and perhaps divorce papers!!!!
A lot of people take their diry partner out to dinner and pop the evidence on the table after the drinks arrive.
you will be in a public place, and catch him off gaurd!!!
just do it!
have the lawyer's card with you- the one you will or have consulted about for your divorce.
GET STD'S TEST!
i would say, hey, happy Valentine's Day........I've got an appt for us both to be STD's tested, cuz one of us has been messin' around!!! AND i KNOW it's not me!!!!
good luck
2007-02-13 00:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenmy girlfriend found a nother girls number she jumped over the couch and started hitting me. I dont suggest that. Just be straight forward about it.
2007-02-13 00:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by bmikey79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have all of
the facts and documentation ready
and in hand before you appraoch him.
Then, when you confront him
(hopefully- calmly),
and he begins lying-
(as he undoubtedly will)
just produce your proof.
2007-02-13 00:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by DG 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
usually with a shovel so you can carry the dirt and also have him dig his grave
2007-02-13 01:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
specify dirt- you found on him?
if you are saying he is cheating- show him the evidence
2007-02-13 00:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You obviously dont love and trust your husband so start with ...." I want a divorce"
2007-02-13 00:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by karena k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋