Let me tell in short: i had a miscariage on 15 dec06, after that i havnt got my periods, (I dont get my regular period).. i went 2 d doctor on 20th and had a check.. I was not prgnt, & nothing left inside. I hve a bad back pain, for which d dr. said it is due 2 weakness...i have a baby of 2yrs. But b4 2 weeks ago my breast had become big,there was a slight pain, so i checked it again on 28th jan.. & the result was -tive... but again from yesterday i have the a problem.. i feel like vomiting, but I don’t vomit, i feel like some gas or something moving in my stomach, and also some cramps or some feeling I cant explain, feel sleepy and tired but no symptoms of breast pain or any other thng please help do anyone knows what is this ????? i have no other symptoms of pregnancy?.. I know you will tell me to have a test.. or go to doctor, but believe me friends i am tired and am sacred that if I wont be than..i want a baby, as I feel that the miscarriage was my fault, & I wnt that bab
2007-02-12 16:31:20 · 20 answers · asked by Richa 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
can any one tell me the feelings they feel in the abdomen, when pregnant in the early stage...
2007-02-12 18:01:54 · update #1
Hi Richa, it is me, you always guide others and why are u so tense, relax.. i understand your problem, I believe me i think this time you are pregnant, i am sure god must have answered your egarness...You said you have a baby, dont you feel you already have a gift, but i can understand u are thinking from the point of a mother... so relax you can have a test till the end of this month and definately you will be pregnant, so all the best to you... regards and love to your baby...
2007-02-12 23:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by richard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK , first I am so sorry for your loss. I know that miscarriage is very hard to deal with! I have had 2( 9wks and 20wks,2 days shy of stillborn)
Now, you lost your baby DEC 15 2006 right?
It is now Feb 20 2007 that's about 8 weeks right? If you have taken a pg test and nothing but you are still concerned then you should go to a Dr again. How old is your other child?
You should also put about 6 months between the time you lost the baby and trying to get pg again! Let your body heal! It takes some time for your body and your mind to heal. the longer you wait the less chance of trouble with the next pregnancy!
And finally RELAX....It will happen in Gods time not ours!
Good Luck and God Bless!
2007-02-20 04:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by knight_janette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Richa
Take it easy! Atleast you want a baby! You are working up. It would be better for you to relax, even if you are pregnant and you dont know wouldn't it be causing you undue anxiety. If you want to keep your baby, you should be relaxed.
First are you still nursing your 1st child. If yes then getting pregnant may not be easy. If no, then relax for a few days and take a beta HCG test. I was waiting anxiously to plan for a second child, and I instinctively knew when I had conceived. The symptoms are typical. Nausea, not necesarry leading to vomitting, you feel like though you cannot bring up. Even an act of brushing your teeth can make you bring up. Grip and pain in the stomach especially lower abdomen. Slight back and joint pain. You also feel feverish for no reason! I used to feel this and only can pray that as much as I longed for a baby, God bless you also that you may have one!
He always gives to those who ask, because there are many in todays world who want to throw away (abort) what he wants to give. So God bless!
2007-02-15 21:30:33 · answer #3 · answered by indiangal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK now this something that I think I could help with you see back in April i had the same thing happen I had a miscarriage and then my period would be all messed up. And I know how messed up it can be. now I know that you don't what to hear this but go to your doctor and as him for the medication that well give you your period and then after you get your period, you and your better half use condoms for a month or tell you get your period again. You see what you are doing in giving your stuff time to get back to normally and trust me it takes time and that's all that well help. Then when you start to see that your period are coming normally again then go at it with you better half and make that little baby. god luck and best wishes.
2007-02-20 05:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by mammas0212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Hugs* It wasn't your fault -- sometimes mother nature plays a little trick on us. I had three miscarriages, but I had an excellent doctor who reassured me that it wasn't my fault.
If you believe in God, believe that He just had other plans for you. If you don't believe, then just remember that making a baby is terribly complicated, and sometimes nature messes up.
You should go see the doctor -- or a different doctor. It may be the flu or something else, but you'll feel much better if you know what it is. Try to get some sleep, and remember that you have a beautiful baby who needs you.
2007-02-12 16:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Madame M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there is no feeling at all. When I was pregnant last time i did not know until 2 months, when i became certain that i missed my period.
Your symptoms may be due to pregnancy, may be not. In last 7 years at least 10 times i got vomitting, stomach rumblings etc, and each time i did preg test. But i was not pregnant.
The best way to ascertain is to make a simple pregnancy test.
2007-02-13 00:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Suvashree 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear friend i'had also some similar probs like urs & it took me nearly 3 moths to recover. Mind this miscariage is not a joke, one life is destroyed so u've to bear the pain, go to good gynocologist.
they will surely help, i think ur case of incomplete abortion & u need to wash , so go & suggest ur Dr , sometime by washing all unwanted things will be claened & u'll be relaxed. Before that u just check ur blood platelate level, as in my case my platelate level is too less that Dr denied to wash & i had to bear the pain till 3 months. try to cure urself first as u need to take care ur 2 yr baby also, be brave & take ur steps, don't depend on others.
2007-02-19 23:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by silicon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...after you miscarry you might not get your period for like 6 weeks or more. check back with your dr if you become late which i'm guessing you aren't yet. anyways...most of the time miscarriages in early pregnancy is due to something wrong with the baby. like its nothing you could have done. it just wouldn't be able to form correctly. you shouldn'tbe having sex or trying to get pregnant at this time. wait atleast 4 months.
2007-02-12 16:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This website is dedicated to assisting women experiencing a miscarriage, trying to conceive again, or are pregnant after enduring a loss or losses. The ultimate goal is to provide women with a haven of comfort and support that they generally cannot find in their local communities or workplaces.
http://www.pamsupport.org/pam.php
I am so sorry for your loss. This site has some answers for you.
2007-02-12 16:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by charontheloose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a "psychological" or false pregnancy... you have talked yourself into being pregnant so your body beleives it is when it isn't. I suggest seeking therapy to get over the miscarriage, and to move on with life. Wanting that pregnancy is not going to bring it back.
2007-02-12 18:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋