okay i wouldn't necessarily call it ditching...but we told each other we were jealous of each other's friends bc we were trying to get back @ each other for hanging out with other ppl...well i completely almost stopped talking to this other girl...&& we still hang out with the girl she was talking with...well...here's the deal...sometimes i wonder if i am really her BEST FRIEND or not she tells me I am...but am I....She tells me more than she tells anybody...she always crys and gets upset every time I get angry at her...so somebody please tell me the truth && nothing but THE TRUTH !!!!! =] ILY
2007-02-12 16:23:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Um...I'm sorry but I hate when my frienships feel like I'm in a relationship with a lover or something. So, this whole possesive type thing isn't going to work. Thats very immature. Like, you two should be able to respect each other enough to give each other proper space for people serve different purposes in our lives. Yes, I have a best friend who I tell *almost* everything to, and she's there for my emotional stuff and when I need to go shopping, but then I have friends who share particular interests with me such as dance or going to parties, these people I woudln't tell my innermost thoughts to for they do not fulfill that purpose. So, you two need to re-evaluate what roles ya'll play in each other's lives and realize that if you two do meet those needs as friends, then there is no need to think someone is "replacing" the other. That comes from insecurities. But you two should not be possessive over each other for it will only hurt you in the end. You two cannot grow as friends if you do so for you two are restraining each other from true potential and growth. So maybe you should have a sit down with your girl and just have a lil hash out about what u two r feeling towards each other, what u two have done 2 neglect ur friendship, and y maybe u see hanging out with sum1 else as like "cheating" and feeling the need to "cheat back" to burn the other person like nan-nanni poo poo u kno. so just hash it out n try to see what flaws and weaknesses lie within ur friendship and go from there.
2007-02-12 16:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Dance Diva 88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y'know, you can just call her a freind, best freind doesn't seem to be a fitting discription right now. Give her some space and time will sort the whole mess out for you both
2007-02-13 08:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, best friends don't treat each other like that. Find a new best friend.
2007-02-12 16:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im sorry but that doesnt really seem like a friend but just like confront her bout it mabye that would help i would do it
2007-02-12 16:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by angelfoever2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad friends
2007-02-12 16:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To much drama, find a new friend...
2007-02-12 16:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋