ok I'm a gay guy..I think inless bi...but I just found it so heartbreaking, icky feeling to see a girl/ woman take a guy that I find attractive. I just really extremly hate it. I hate to see a woman with a cute guy. I wonder how can I try to avoid these feelings. I guess I'm just extremly jealous of women...I think?
2007-02-12 16:22:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow????
2007-02-12 16:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by MrsOcultyThomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a natural feeling that nobody can help feeling. I don't think it's women that you're jealous of I think it might be more that they have the guy you want. I get jealous when I see a couple have a beautiful relationship, not so much of them but that's what I'm looking for
2007-02-13 00:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Google "Swedish Research on Gay brains".You will find that the gay male has the frontal lobes of a female.This would mean that a gay male is part female and that the brain acts like a female.So that would explain why you have these feelings.You are acting just like any other female would towards seeing a man that they are attracted to .Peace!
2007-02-13 00:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that isn't a question. it's a bunch of statements... with a question mart slapped on the end of it.
you know what? anyone who is attracted to men hates to see someone else with a guy they find attractive... and people who are attracted to women do the same thing! it's just being jealous because YOU don't have the person, it's not a big phenomenon or anything.
2007-02-13 00:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most gays r very cute and sensitive. ur feeling is quite normal, and yes, u r jealous of the women...no boubt.
cant avoid these feelings just like u cant become str8 suddenly. so try to be used to it and try to make urself cuter and hotter and get the guy u like from any women!!
best of luck!
2007-02-13 01:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by SUMMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop being jealous of others and find yourself a boyfriend. Someone others, when they look at the two of you, can think, wow, I wish I had a relationship like that.
2007-02-13 00:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you wish you were a woman and it's not really a jealousy issue? Anyway, I don't think feelings should be avoided. Cope with them instead. Peace.
2007-02-13 00:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by superfluity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to being gay.. I feel the same way. However, lots of girls thinks the hottest guys are gay. I guess there is a thrill in someone you know you can't get.
2007-02-13 00:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by N♂t - ♂ut - Yet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealosy gets way too much credit. It's indefensible. Let it go.
2007-02-13 01:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Salek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋