how can i have a safe sex with my wife so that she can't be conceived?

Question

i got my first baby they both r fine but i dont want another baby again after a year, so how can i have a safe sex with my wife so that she can't get pregnant again, is there any specific times and dates i should have sex with her, i dont want to give her pills or any other medicine which has side effects

Answer 1

My wife uses the pill and she doesn't have any side effects. Just do the normal things that people do when they don't want to have a baby. I am sure that you learned about them in the 7th grade in sex ed. Oh, and by the way, your wife was concieved a long time ago so you don't have to worry about it happening to her again, it only happens once.

Answer 2

Condoms would be your safest bet.

Or, there is something called "Natural Family Planning" But keep in mind that it is NOT 100% effective!

Go to http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ You can register for free, and then go to the ovulation predictor. Once you enter the days of which she has menstruated, it will tell you what her fertile days are, therefore avoiding sexual activity on those days could decrease the chances of her becoming pregnant again.

Have you considered letting her chose her own birth control? There are a lot of barrier methods for women that do not involve chemicals or hormones. She should talk to her dr about these, as they really are much safer than hoping you hit the right day and that she won't become pregnant unexpectedly.

Answer 3

OMFG you are one arrogant a$$ I was gonna be a smart a$$ but now I see you saying ou don't want to give her pills as if you make the choice. Birth control I think is your best bet considering you said "how can i have a safe sex with my wife so that she can't be conceived". Okay for one her mother and father conceived her you can't conceive her! You can knock her up which I hope you don't with that half of a brain you got yourself there dumbass. Anyways I think you should use condoms and BC and foam everything you can get your hands on cuz obviously you education level is really low and I'd hate to this someone so vacuous wouldactually be trying to raise children.

Answer 4

Does she know you don't want another baby? She can use a diaphram with spermicide, you can use condoms, she can chart but only if she's REAL strict with it, and she has to do that, not you. Time of day doesn't matter, and time of month changes, so it's never 100%. Other than that, if you really don't want any more, get a vasectomy.
PS That's really sweet that you don't want her to have side effects. Birth Control Pills can cause blood clots and strokes!

Answer 5

There is an IUD that does not have hormones in it that could be used. Like others said, there are condoms. Also, I think you are thinking of natural family planning. It is not too reliable. There are books available with more information. Try the library. There is always research available on the Internet. Good luck!!

Answer 6

Yes there are options...are you doing this for you? Or for both you and her?
This is something that you have to talk about together and with your doctor. Nothing is 100% foolproof, but there are old ways, like watching the dates, or temperature or discharge. Your doctor can tell you all about them.

Answer 7

Tell her to find out more about her cycle. For example, 7 days after menstrual cycle means ovulation so, try not to have sex during these days.

Answer 8

Some birth control methods include the condom, of course, or you can try one of the following which do not involve hormones or drugs:

Periodic Abstinence or Fertility Awareness Methods – A woman who has a regular menstrual cycle has about seven or more fertile days or days when she is able to get pregnant, each month. Periodic abstinence means you do not have sex on the days that you may be fertile. These fertile days are approximately 5 days before ovulation, the day of ovulation, and one or more days after ovulation. Fertility awareness means that you can be abstinent or have sex but you use a “barrier” method of birth control to keep sperm from getting to the egg. Barrier methods include condoms, diaphragms, or cervical caps, used together with spermicides, which kill sperm. These methods are 75 to 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. Keep in mind that to practice these methods, you need to learn about your menstrual cycle (or how often you get your period). To learn about your cycle, keep a written record of when you get your period, what it is like (heavy or light blood flow), and how you feel (sore breasts, cramps). You also check your cervical mucus and take your basal body temperature daily, and record these in a chart. This is how you learn to predict, or tell, which days you are fertile or “unsafe.” You can ask your doctor or nurse for more information on how to record and understand this information.

Copper T IUD (Intrauterine Device) – An IUD is a small device that is shaped in the form of a “T.” Your health care provider places it inside the uterus. The arms of the Copper T IUD contain some copper, which stops fertilization by preventing sperm from making their way up through the uterus into the fallopian tubes. If fertilization does occur, the IUD would prevent the fertilized egg from implanting in the lining of the uterus. The Copper T IUD can stay in your uterus for up to 12 years. It does not protect against STDs or HIV. This IUD is 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. You will need to visit your doctor to have it inserted and to make sure you are not having any problems. Not all doctors insert IUDs so check first before making your appointment.

Diaphragm, Cervical Cap or Shield – These are barrier methods of birth control, where the sperm are blocked from entering the cervix and reaching the egg. The diaphragm is shaped like a shallow latex cup. The cervical cap is a thimble-shaped latex cup. The cervical shield is a silicone cup that has a one-way valve that creates suction and helps it fit against the cervix. The diaphragm and cervical cap come in different sizes and you need a doctor to “fit” you for one. The cervical shield comes in one size and you will not need a fitting. Before sexual intercourse, you use them with spermicide (to block or kill sperm) and place them up inside your vagina to cover your cervix (the opening to your womb). You can buy spermicide gel or foam at a drug store. Some women can be sensitive to an ingredient called nonoxynol-9 and need to use spermicides that do not contain it. The diaphragm is 84 to 94% effective at preventing pregnancy. The cervical cap is 84 to 91% effective at preventing pregnancy for women who have not had a child and 68 to 74% for women who have had a child. The cervical shield is 85% effective at preventing pregnancy. Barrier methods must be left in place for 6 to 8 hours after intercourse to prevent pregnancy and removed by 24 hours for the diaphragm and 48 for cap and shield. You will need to visit your doctor for a proper fitting for the diaphragm or cervical cap and a prescription for the cervical shield.

Contraceptive Sponge - This is a barrier method of birth control that was re-approved by the Food and Drug Administration in 2005. It is a soft, disk shaped device, with a loop for removal. It is made out of polyurethane foam and contains the spermicide nonoxynol-9. Before intercourse, you wet the sponge and place it, loop side down, up inside your vagina to cover the cervix. The sponge is 84 to 91% effective at preventing pregnancy in women who have not had a child and 68 to 80% for women who have had a child. The sponge is effective for more than one act of intercourse for up 24 hours. It needs to be left in for at least six hours after intercourse to prevent pregnancy and must be removed within 30 hours after it is inserted. There is a risk of getting Toxic Shock syndrome or TSS if the sponge is left in for more than 30 hours. The sponge does not protect against STDs or HIV. There is only one kind of contraceptive sponge for sale in the United States, called the Today Sponge, and it can be purchased at a drug store. Women who are sensitive to the spermicide nonoxynol-9 should not use this birth control method.

Answer 9

Then get ready to be a Daddy...on a quite regular basis.

Answer 10

Judging by your initial question I could only assume you were married to a fetus!