for the gays and lesbains and bisexuals who didnt always know what there sexuality was ,what was it like trying to figure out what u are ?. was u confused before u realised that u was gay ,lesbain or bisexual. ?
iam a girl and iam 18
2007-02-12 16:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was about your age...I had a breakdown and tried to commit suicide because I couldn't admit that I was gay. Yes i was very confused...But I'm not now.
2007-02-12 16:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I was aware of the concept of lesbianism, I always assumed I would never have sex.
I was never really confused. The fact that I was attracted to women hit me like an epiphany somewhere in junior high school, the proverbial lightbulb flash over the head.
2007-02-13 01:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by Salek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually did always know, but I didn't always accept it in myself. It took me years, plenty of bad break-ups and a failed marriage to finally admit to myself that I had been lying all those years.
I wasn't confused so much as in complete denial.
2007-02-13 00:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew I was when I was in school but never camne out untile 4 yrs ago when I got sick of haveing sex with a man...
2007-02-18 16:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by singlebratty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 20 and ive never really been that attracted to guys. i never had crushes on guys in my school really but i said i did to feel normal. ive had boyfriends but nothing emotionally serious and recently ive realized that im Bi ( im not sure im ready to admit im gay) ive always has crushes on girls but never thought anything of it. but yea i have been very confused many times but know im figuring out who i am. so yeah it can be confusing.
2007-02-13 01:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Monkeybones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am straight and at 18 I wondered, so don't worry, its part of being 18!!!
2007-02-20 15:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by BANANA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was super confused.
i was also trying to find myself.
finally i did.
not out yet...
but i'm on my way there.
it is very confusing, but sooner or later everyone knows whether they're gay or straight.
2007-02-20 18:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by jeana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always knew, so I really can't help you out there... Sorry.
2007-02-13 09:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋