A gay male (GM) and straight male (SM) live together in the same house for more than a year.
Gay male is more dominant and high achiever and is older by about 5 years. Straight male is 22. GM is helping SM get a job placement through his corporate connections. GM gives him the best life possible; good clothes and comfortable life-style in a posh condo in town. GM also helps support SM's family.
But why SM always keeps insulting GM? GM tries to level things to ease tension but SM think and keeps that they are not the same. When there is argument why SM can not openly apologize to GM if he commits a mistake? Do you think it has to do with manner or self-pride? Why do you think SM is very slow in appreciating the goodness of GM? He keeps on muttering the bad attitudes of GM. He seems to have little interest in in the good side of GM.
GM also observes that SM is highly sensitive over a lot of things. W
2007-02-12 16:16:14 · 6 answers · asked by neps365 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It could be a combination of two things. SM might have a maturity issue thereby explains the behavior.
Or it can be that with compiled with you doing almost EVERYTHING for him. I mean you are like an open door for him to not have any stress issues. You pay for his every need and supply him with every comfort and you're also paying for his family. He feels like a king and doesn't feel with all these pleasures that he needs to submit to the limits that you set or the rules you set. Looks like he also wants to mold you to the way he wants you to be so thats why he brings up anything negative about you.
You might want to reconsider why you're supporting this person..almost sounds like the submissive wife syndrome on your part..you supply and do everything for him and he enjoys it and tries to max out that pleasure and remove any stress and responsibilities on his part.
2007-02-14 04:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Triskelion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
appears like SM is basically too based on GM. Such dependency would reason insecurities and shame interior the based party. On yet another observe, could it is that SM isn't so quickly even with each thing and continues to be in denial? And attempting to overcompensate via concentrating on the unfavorable of GM?
2016-10-02 01:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by luera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often I think Straight men can be bad about not being comfortable with how they feel and expressing it. A lot of families seem to raise straight men into being this way. Don't know why or understand it. Something about being a "man" or whatever. Personally I think it is dumb.
You find a lot of people will tiptoe around this ego and try to work with it. It can be tedious and annoying though if you weren't raised that way or were raised that way but have rejected it as a way of behaving.
2007-02-12 17:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like SM's a bit of a jerk. Could be he does honestly think he's better than the other guy simply by virtue of his straightness, could be he's just an all-around jerk and it's not even about that. I got nothing.
2007-02-13 09:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the straight male won't realize how good he's got it until the straight male is gone. His insults might just be jokes, he may feel comfortable joking around with you, like a friend.
You always don't appreciate what you have until its gone.
2007-02-12 16:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's called the Superbowl.
2007-02-12 16:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋