I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now and whenever we have sex she would also use her fingers. Sometimes when she is doing so it feels good but then a little bit of blood would come out. I am also a virgin and this is my first serious relationship. Has she broken my hymen? or is she doing it too hard? Please Answer!
2007-02-12 16:08:09 · 19 answers · asked by chinkster 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This has happened before many times with my girlfriend. Sometimes there would be a lot of blood but sometimes there isn't a lot. She doesn't want it to hurt for me so sometimes before we do it so she cuts her nails. Has she broken my hymen? I don't know if I should consider myself as a virgin or not.
2007-02-12 17:36:52 · update #1
Sweety if you are bleeding that often, theres a medical problem, or shes being way to rough on you. See a doctor or tell her to take it easy down there. BTW you only bleed a little bit ONCE when your hymen is broken, not time after time, and once broken you are no longer a virgin.
2007-02-20 15:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by graycherubs3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the blood only happened once, then yes she broke your hymen. Good for you. At least you didn't waste yourself on some guy!
If you bleed every time, then she should cut her nails and stop doing it so hard. She might be hitting your vaginal wall when she is thrusting, so have her be careful.
Either way, you aren't a virgin anymore. Sex is still sex - you don't need a penis involved to make it official! "Virgin" by definition is someone untouched sexually. YOU are obviously no longer a virgin, sweetie.
2007-02-12 16:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well,
1. you may not have a hymen. Some girls are born without them, some get broken during any kind of activities, painlessly with no blood.
2. Does she have false nails? They maybe scratching your insides.
Have you tried some sex toys? If you think she might be hurting you with her fingers, you should try a dildo, vibrator or strap on, just to try to see ifshes doing something there!
Stay healthy
2007-02-12 16:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Crayon_Freak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts after wards then perhaps she is to rough. But you could also be right. perhaps she has broken your hymen in which case there is nothing to worry about.
If it continues though then it may be something to talk to a GP about. At the end of the day only you can know if your girlfriend is being to rough or not.
2007-02-12 16:15:02 · answer #4 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 02:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has broken your hymen I'm guessing that it should only bleed once. Does she have sharp fingernails? Does it hurt? I guess I need more information to give you a truly accurate response. If you want to keep it private, you can email me, so that you don't have to post the information here (although you seem to be pretty open about it!).
2007-02-12 16:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it feels good then she's not doing it too hard. You're probably right that it's the hymen. Not to worry. It won't do that for long. Congrats on the relationship.
2007-02-12 16:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by susiemama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She might have broke your hymen but I'm not sure...Try going to this site and look around. You may find what you are looking for.
http://www.scarleteen.com/
There's also a forum on this site which allows you to ask a question about sex. People are very nice and friendly, I think it will help you out a lot.
Good luck and take care!
2007-02-12 16:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Este 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she is doing it too hard. She has broken the hymen and, no, you are not a virgin anymore...virgin means you are untouched.
2007-02-16 11:20:37 · answer #9 · answered by Reyanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she broke your hymen. If it hurts, perhaps you should ask her to cut her nails and use a little bit more lube.
2007-02-12 16:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Elaine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋