I am wondering if maybe I am bisexual. I have been fantasizing a LOT lately about the same sex..usually when I am in the middle of an orgasm. Now it seems like that's all I can get off to. Does this make me bi? I have never been with a woman before.
2007-02-12 15:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No I don't think so.I would say you are bi when you are w/ a women physically and enjoy it both physically and emotionally,but you also are the same pleasures form being w/ a man!It could just be a fetish/fantasy,I guess you won't know for sure until you try it?!
2007-02-12 16:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This can be completely normal. It doesn't mean your bi or gay just because the idea gets you off. It could simple be the thrill of thinking of something that is still seen as taboo.
If it's some think you think you'd like to explore then by all means go for it. It might be the lifestyle your more suited to but at the end of the day if you try it and don't like it then there's no harm returning to a straight life.
It's greatly accepted to try same gender sex.
2007-02-13 00:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by angelic_devil30 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone goes through times in there lives were there sexuality's change. You can be straight till you 23 then you suddenly have a thing for girls, later for both, then straight again. I wouldn't worry about it. Just maybe as your partner if he would mind maybe a threesome? Or maybe if you had a small experiment with the same sex? If you don't have a partner, then consider trying it out? Sexual experimentation is FINE. No need to feel bashful about it.
2007-02-13 00:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Crayon_Freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is an often reported fantasy so alone it probably means nothing. If you think about being with a girl at other times or get crushes on girls you see/know then you could say you are bi. Either way it doesn't matter. Just enjoy!
2007-02-15 08:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is asked about 80 times every day.
If you are sexually interested in men and women, you are bisexual. You do not have to have had sex with either gender to be bisexual, just as you can be gay or straight and have never had sex.
2007-02-13 01:49:13 · answer #5 · answered by Salek 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think the key to any sexual preference is attraction. If you find yourself watching women as they walk by, and thinking about their bodies (not if they are a threat to you and your boyfriend) then you are more likely to be considered sexually attracted to both genders, known as bisexual.
If it is only when you are not really in the presence of women, you may just be working through the thoughts in your mind, kind of like dreaming about bizzare stuff.
I'm not saying "ignore it, it is just a phase or the devil temping you" or something .. just that you need more direct attraction for it to be real.
2007-02-13 00:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is a definite but there is a possibility! You should check it out it wouldn't hurt but be safe about it! Honestly women are more attractive than men! I am straight but still attracted to women and I there's nothing wrong with seeing women as a sex object because we are all trained to though society to think!
2007-02-13 00:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely curious. You shouldn' t make any rash determinations. Take your time and think about what you want, and what you like. Don't be so quick to label yourself as anything. Labels are to make other people comfortable.
2007-02-13 00:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Duraznita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not bi. Your mind for some reason has recently been polluted. It will eventually go away. Don't make to much about it.
2007-02-13 00:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, you like to lick vagina and penis.
2007-02-13 00:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋