also he always want to talk to me atleast 4-5 times a day . i m workin n he is studing . if i tell him that i m busy he start fighting with me.he wants that i should do every thing with his permission. moreover he is too sensitive n feels bad for every n anything which could b avoided.
pls help me . how to increase his patience as he doesnt listen to me
2007-02-12 15:53:33 · 4 answers · asked by vanice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good thing you found out about this before you got married...You need to dump this guy, seriously this will get worse. You will not change him...
2007-02-12 16:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew the answer to that question. I have a dear friend that I never see any more because her live in boy friend is the same way. He has even caused her to lose several jobs. Honey, if you get married it will only get worse. Nip it in the butt right now. Tell him how much you love him but you just can't see you two in a loving marriage with out trust. He isn't over protective he is over possesive. It tells you in the bible what love is, check into it and relay it to him. You say he won't listen to him. Are you going to be a dumby when you get married. I sure hope not! Kick him to the curb.
2007-02-13 00:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by psws_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from this man!! He is dangerously obscessive and controlling. He wants to deprive you of your contacts with your friends and that will eventually extend to your family. Please believe me when I tell you that this is a form of serious abuse. Please call an abuse hotline in your area--check the phone book--and describe what you told us here. This man could even be dangerous when you break up with him. I can't stress strongly enough how bad this man is for your welfare. Please don't marry him. This isn't about being protective; it's all about control!!!
2007-02-13 00:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him try to be a mature person
and tell him that we live in the real world,not only in the loving word.real world means we need people to talk to u and not only him.but the important thing is tell him to be MATURE. i'm sure he will understand.
2007-02-13 00:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by mamin_87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋