This does not apply to me personally, I am just taking a survey, so to speak.
2007-02-12 15:43:17 · 25 answers · asked by kewtber 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Bad Reasons
Whomever is pregnant
Your not in love with the person
Because mom and dad said so/or someone else
Because someone has paid for you (mail order)
Someone won you on EBay
They lost a bet
2007-02-12 16:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You feel you have to. It can be from family pressure & expectations, because you think that you're supposed to be married by a certain age, & because you think everyone else is doing it. Speaking as a married chick, I certainly would be divorced by now if I married the first guy who asked & not my now husband. You have to understand the big picture & have the same long term goals together. Too many girls have fantasies of the perfect wedding, but forget that a marriage is about more than one day.
2007-02-13 00:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by melidef3405 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many bad reasons:
1. You don't want to be alone (scared of being by your self)
2. For Money
3. For good Sex (Yes its a bad reason cause thats all there is)
4. Status
5. Settling for what u dont deserve
6. For your children (You will just teach them to settle for less in life and they will think its okay to be in a loveless marriage)
7. Becaue the other person loves you, you feel obligated
8. Family pressure
9. Social expectations.
10. Its a for ever deal so you better be sure
2007-02-12 23:59:34 · answer #3 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are alot of bad reason for getting married such as not loving the person, using him/her to get what you want, money,just to where someone else can not have them. Are you sure this isnt for you, dont get married for the wrong reason, like expecting a child that does not always make it better because sometimes they do it because of QUILT
2007-02-12 23:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by sla571963 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your marrying because of finances, or marrying because u think that person can complete u or fill up the empty void with in u. if your marrying to get something, or if your pregnant, a baby will not make it work, it will just add to any problems that u already have. if your marrying for any reason except unconditional love for that other person it may not work.if your marrying to escape something else in life it won't work either.
2007-02-13 10:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because of a pregnancy, for money, or for status. The only reason to marry is because of deep commited love by both partys.
2007-02-12 23:51:18 · answer #6 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married just for sex is a VERY bad reason.
2007-02-13 00:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any reason is a bad reason. It just takes some people longer than other s to figure that out
2007-02-13 00:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by bmikey79 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad Reasons? i would say: for money, for fame, for illegal immigration reasons, for taxes.....pretty much anything that you will use marriage to have a better life or avoid whatever in life.
Marriage is because you are in LOVE with eachother. The only reason in the whole world to marry is because of love.
2007-02-13 00:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by sugarBear 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Contrary to popular belief, "being in love" is a bad reason to get married.
2007-02-13 00:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Emily D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋