i didnt know he was married..until the wife called me. Holy sh*t...It hurt me so bad...3 days before christmas, new years shot to heck and now a month later he showed up...claims he left her..living apart now, and he made my Birthday special...am i a masochist..how do i know for sure? I have 1000000000 things going through my head. Betrayal-guilt.....He says what we share is real...he tells me he loves me. He even told me he brought his 13 year old son by my home to visit me but i wasnt home. Can i chat with someone who was in this predicament? who knows how it feels? experienced it...he says it was going to happen anyhow. OMG im so confused, now my straight thinking is all screwed up. I never knew-or expected this.
Will he stay with me??? hmmmm....
If you are cheating-being cheated on-or are the Other person- please chat with me...we could compare notes.
2007-02-12 15:39:21 · 8 answers · asked by La-La 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what he had with his wife wasn't ever real? seems as if he has rewritten the marriage. your only hearing his side of it. i would not rust him or try to make a life with him, he isn't trust worthy, how long till he cheats on u? u need to move away from this, before u get a broken heart like his wife now has. he is only with u because she is on to him now. do u really want involved with a man who cheats on his wife? not to mention the karma that comes along with hurting others.
2007-02-13 02:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All l will say is my husband cheated on me and yes he did leave but only for a couple of months then he came back begging for my forgiveness. Think about it. Do you really want to go through that ?? He realised the grass was not greener on the other side and your man may realise that too. Do you want to be the other woman ? Believe me you will get hurt, if not today but in the future. Tell him to sort his crap out and to give you room to breathe and think. Best of luck
2007-02-12 16:11:08 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a liar. He only showed up at your door because he got caught! Married men usually go back to their wives. You are a fool to stay with this man. Find somebody else less complicated. If he cheated once he'll do the same thing to you!
2007-02-13 02:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by jjeano661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if there's a gay-Lesbian Alliance help middle on your section, so which you will get some counseling and meet people who've been in an identical difficulty. you additionally can prefer to touch P-FLAG (mom and dad and acquaintances of lesbians and gays). they are going to help your boyfriend how you may handle his kin in a fashion that may not get all people mad at one yet another.
2016-09-29 01:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about him with the son thing.and he may do the same to you.how can any body trust.a man that forgot to tell you that he had a wife.no trust no love.he may still be with her. you know that trust thing. let the bum go.go on with your life and don't look back. have a BIG HUG on me.
2007-02-12 16:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similiar situation. I had to let the guy go, he was causing me unecessary stress and depression and I wanted my happiness back.
2007-02-12 17:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Bu Tran 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sound like trouble waiting to happen. he was married when he
was with you. and now that he left his wife, to be with you, trust
me what goes around will come back around. he did to her with
you, trust me, he will cheat on you with some one else. time
to let him go, he has some issues that he need to deal with.
2007-02-12 16:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea, he will stay with you untill he finds someone else to leave you for them, then you will be alone too
2007-02-12 16:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋