how can a i orgasm during sex (overcome pee feeling)?

Question

when i have sex with my boyfriend i feel like i have to pee.. and i know thats the sign that i am about to have an orgasm.. but i dont.. how can i "overcome" this feeling and orgasm.. i know i do not have to pee, is there something i am supposed to do physically or mentally? do i ignore this feeling, am i supposed to try and pee... squeeze (kegals)?

Answer 1

It's actually pretty common to feel like you have to pee during sex. Go to the bathroom before things get started, and you won't have to worry about that.

As for the orgasm part....like the other poster said: figure out what works for you on your own, and then figure out how to do that same thing when you're with your boyfriend.

Answer 2

The first thing you need to do is figure out what makes you orgasm when you are alone. Once you figure that out you will be able to know how to help yourself orgasm with intercourse. Many women do not orgasm via intercourse. If you do not orgasm with intercourse then have your boyfriend finish you off by hand or with oral sex.

Answer 3

The pee feeling is your orgasm. You don't urinate during sex. So it ain't PEE.
Just let go and you will always have fun.

Answer 4

Just let go, you wont pee (unless your bladder is really full). Some women find it really hard (myself included) when it happens though,you wont know what stopped you before.
Making your partner stay doing what he is doing will also help, not changing position or style

Answer 5

lol, I like neoangel's answer. When I played hide and seek when I was younger I always felt like I had to pee!!! lol.



You shouldn't be having sex, you aren't married.

Answer 6

THATS HOW I FEEL WHEN I PLAY HIDE N SEEK!