We never went out but i did take her to homecoming. I was sweet and nice to her the whole time. Later she decided to say some bad things about me and I exploded and called her fat and stupid. Now its been like 3 months since it happened and I ocassionally hear some bad things that she keeps talking about me. Should I apologize for being rude and calling her those things (which are true) just to show that im the greater person. Should I do it by e-mail or in person. I'd do it in person but shes so awkward and she will just turn me down because she is so disrepsectful.
2007-02-12 15:37:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first, you NEVER apologize unless it is heartfelt and honest. Second,If you want to demonstrate your heartfelt regret of the whole situation, do it in person, face to face without expecting anything in return from her. If you are really remorseful, apologize to her in front of her Friends.
2007-02-13 08:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should be the bigger person and just walk up to her in person and apologize to her, and just get it out of the way and over with. You can keep it short and sweet- just make sure it's sincere. If she doesn't believe your apology is honest, it won't make any difference.
2007-02-12 15:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by BNKsMomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should confront her. At least ou'll know that you're mature enough to go up to her, eventhough she may act immature with you. Anyways, she was the one who began your guys' argument. It was all karma. She was mean to you. So you gave her a taste of her own medicine. Nonetheless, apologize to her personally. You'll be a man by doing this, dude. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 15:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
so you gave her a pity date. then you decide that she was fat and stupid. and you think that you need to say that you are sorry, yes you should. she did not ask for you pity she simply asked you out . i am sure that there are some words that were said that you have not made known, the both of you should apologize. and leave each other alone.
2007-02-12 15:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat and stupid , Whew!!! that really must hurt a lot, if you said that to me i would really get mad
but then if she is awkward and would just turn you down, just atleast sending her a letter telling how sincerely sorry you are tell her you cant tell her that in person because youre too shy , but you mean it, atleast you said sorry, youve tried.its all up to her to forgive
2007-02-12 15:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can be very catty.
i would do it in person but then like you said she would only turn you down.
so do it by email then you can say everything you want to and if it sounds dumb you can delte it and start again you cant do that in person.
it sounds like you tryed to be nice and if she wants to at like this now then she is probally just saying it caus eshe wanted to get lucky and you didnt let that happen.
good luck
2007-02-12 15:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by faith m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh you poor thing. I see your trying to be a man, good for you. If you really want to apologize to her, do it in person. Face to face. You need to remember, your conscience will be clear and you can let her say what ever she wants. No one cares.
2007-02-12 15:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. In person.
2007-02-12 15:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should apologize her, she may be in the wrong in the first place doesn't mean that you have to fire back at her. this may take the weight off your shoulders.
good luck
2007-02-12 15:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by manblind1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should, even though if you want to, but I'm not sure will she accept your apology or not, but, just try to apologize to her..
2007-02-12 15:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋