does weight have anything to do with pritteness?

Question

okay i had people say i am fat but very buitful. but fat and it hurts so bad but like when i am by myself i look in the mirrior i look pretty but when i am in public ad look in the mirrior i look ugly to my self so what do you think?

Answer 1

No, you can be a bit overweight but have a cute face. As a matter of fact I think it's better to have a nice looking face and be a bit chubby than to have a hot body and ugly face.

Answer 2

Personally, I don't think being a little on the heavy side (what some jerks would call fat) has anything to do with being beautiful. I'm "full-figured" and I get plenty of compliments and male attention. And honey, I know I look good! I don't need them to tell me. (And remember something we got on the "perfect people", skinny chicks have to buy their boobs.) Now people that are extremely heavy are pushing it. And that's because if a person is extremely overweight it is a sign to the world that they don't have self love.

And who is telling you you're fat? Someone who doesn't have any room to talk? Or some person you could use to pick a lock? The next time someone says something like that to you why don't you ask them what their secret is for staying so thin. They can either put up or shut up.

I saw a picture once of an anorexic woman sunbathing in a bikini. On the beach in the background were two heavy set women in swimsuits. I'd put money on it that if a person were looking at that picture and had to decide which they'd rather look like, they'd pick heavy set.

Read Maya Angelou's "Phenomenal Woman". You can search for it on the web. There is at least one site that gives the full poem. If you can't find it just email me and I'll send it to you. Love yourself - your worth it!!

Answer 3

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
In my eyes its not looks that matters its the person inside that really matters. You can be over weight and be good looking but it sounds like you lack self esteem and self confidance and with out those two things you will always think negative about yourself no matter what others may say to you.

Answer 4

If your weight has you hanging over your pants, looks nasty. Get your height in inches, divide that by your weight. If the number is over two. Then weight matters.

I have been with girls that were over that and we had a great relationship. But they read something in a magizine and ask why we don't do that? I'm like those girls a 70 or so pounds lighter than you. That is my pet peeve with big girls. They want you top treat them like they were skinny.
I don't treat you bad because of your size. But I'm not picking you up to carry either.

Answer 5

Your weight isn't what makes you beautiful. It's your personality and character. The only thing bad about being over weight is how it effects your health. If you talk to a doctor ask him if you are at a healthy weight or if you are at risk for some diseases. But your weight doesn't matter when it comes to beauty. :)

Answer 6

it can affect the prettiness of someone and like if u have a really fat face but i think your to self conscious out in public.... your probably beautiful :)

Answer 7

no i think that being chubby and preety is better than being skinny and ugly!!c everyone has concerns about their body and mayby while u think u r ugly in public other people r whishing to look like you so just be happy for what you are !!!

Answer 8

I think you are most likely beautiful. Stop listening to other people.

Answer 9

not until you reach 250 pounds or somethin

Answer 10

i can't say, i've never seen you before so i won't judge you .