2007-02-12 15:07:58 · 21 answers · asked by TEST N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It may be natural to look at other people, but I think it is totally disrespectful for a guy to clearly check out other girls in front of his girlfriend. I have a problem with it when my boyfriend does it. I know he probably does it when i am not around, but if he ever does it when he is with me, he gets an earfull. I do not disrespect him by checking out guys in front of him. I know it would hurt his feelings. Talk to him about it, and tell him you feel it is disrespectful, if he loves you, he will accept how you feel and work on it. If not, I would leave him.
2007-02-12 15:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is under 80 years old it is incredibly normal. If he were your husband it would be normal to an extent but he should be discreet. If boyfriend wasn't checking out other babes, he would not be your boyfriend for long simply because he wouldn't be all that into females. Jealousy is the worst behavior a human can have. Get rid of it.
2007-02-12 15:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He IS human after all. As long as he's not doing it blatantly in front of you don't necessarily have to worry. Every male is looking or thinking about looking whether they admit it or not. I have three sisters and know very well you look, too. Are you saying that if you were on the beach and fit, good looking guy walked by you wouldn't look twice?
If the boyfriend is blatant about it, you should hit him.
2007-02-12 15:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you meaning is that ok? well i don't mean to be blunt but guys just love to perve, that's a given. I think if you're with you boyfriend though it isn;t right for him to be openly checking out girls in front of you...like you know he's going to perve but tell him to do it in his own time or you'll walk
2007-02-12 15:11:57 · answer #4 · answered by kayla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try checking out other guys. if he is comfortable with that then i would say that he thinks he is doing nothing wrong and probably isn't. if he flips then he will either stop checking out other girls or play the old double standard card. in that case grab on to one of the other guys you checked out.
2007-02-12 15:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They all do it. Just ignore it and start openly checking out some male flesh. Make sure you say smutty things about the guys your checking out.
2007-02-12 15:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by karena k 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl! Don't be like that! Obviously he's into other girls and not you! Get on with your life and find someone who truly cares about you, and not some goofball off the street!
2007-02-12 15:24:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal and perfectly healthy. Don't yell at him for it or he'll think you're being too controlling.
The fact that he is still with you and never cheats is whats important. You can look, but don't touch. Thats what I always tell my boyfriend.
2007-02-12 15:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Dana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a natural biological thing. Guys can't help looking at pretty girls. But as long as he keeps his hands to himself you are OK. If he strays, dump him.
2007-02-12 15:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
PREPARE FOR IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. A good guy will atlease do it with respect or slick but im sorry, we like what we see as opposed to what we hear or feel.
2007-02-12 15:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by brotha6ft4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋