I have a fetish and I want to know if this makes me gay or not. Please read the whole thing before you answer.
I Like Butt play, pretty much. I know i know, its a little weird, but I like fingering myself when i masturbate and I want to ask my girlfriend what she would think about eating me out. I DONT think about ***** going in, just the thought of something going in turns me on, including my fingers, her fingers or like objects. like a dildo pretty much but not in the shape of a penis. I dont think about that, I just think about the pleasure of it going in.
Also, I think about women when I am doing this not men. Some people told me some guys just like the feeling, but others have said im just a "f..a..g". please help, am i straight??? If this makes me a freak how do i get help.
2007-02-12 14:32:48 · 21 answers · asked by Kevin w 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are a man. You have a prostate. You like having it touched.
This doesn't make you gay. Being attracted to men makes you gay. Really, it's that simple.
This doesn't make you a freak. You're normal.
2007-02-12 14:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Salek 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
If you don't like men you're not gay. Don't let anyone else judge your sexuality. Everyone has sexual exploits and fantasies and things that get them off that might repulse some and might be everyday play for others.
Talk to your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel and see if she's game. But don't let someone humiliate or shame you because of what you want to do.
It's your body and until you infringe upon someone elses rights go for it.
And you have a ton of nerve endings there - that's why it's so common for people to have desires for sexual play there. Gay, straight or bi. Just practice safe sex, it's really easy for diseases to get transmitted with anal practices.
2007-02-12 22:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by flutterby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are describing anal sex which some men are comfortable with and some men are not. There are many books discussing this. You can go to your bookstore to find such books, usually under health They will provide details why you feel this way.
Your sexual preference (same, opposite.or both) will develop over time, and you will find your way. To ask why if a particular action will make you one way or another is foolish. This seems to be more motivated by guilt than sexual orientation.
2007-02-12 22:49:51 · answer #3 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is common with some guys. My straight friend who has had a girlfriend for three years now loves sticking things in himself. Some guys have anal fetishes which does not make you gay.
2007-02-12 23:04:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't gay ) Alot of guys enjoy those types of play, your prostate is very close to that area, and can be very sesnitive and give some wonderful feelings. You say you're not attracted to guys, that's fine, that's the definintion of gay..attracted to the same sex. So relax and enjoy yourself, there many aides/toys out there to help you reach full pleasure, so stop questioning yourself and go enjoy...
2007-02-13 07:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by emt_dragon339 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why in the owrld you think you may be gay is beyound me---people are all different and not all people enjoy the same thing -others like to try different things some just do the routine sexual thing--so where is the problem. Dont go listening to everyone, just do what ever you enjoy. Plus it is NO one elses business what you do or what you enjoy.
2007-02-12 22:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by nickle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely normal for straight men to get pleasure from their buttholes. That's where the male g-spot is! Being homosexual doesn't have to do with anal pleasure and stuff... it has to do with an actual attraction to men.
People shouldn't ever call you a f a g! Just kick them in the balls next time they say something like that to you... that's not cool
2007-02-12 22:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, many people have different fetishes and yours is just a little strange that you like things stuck up your butt.
2007-02-12 22:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by AD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you have just said, I have to believe that you are KINKY NOT GAY. To be gay you'd have to want men and get turned on by men. BUT you are NOT turned on by men and do NOT fantasize about men. So it is more kinky than anything GO FOR IT have a great time.
2007-02-12 22:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not gay. The fact you think about pleasure and women says it all. You like women. Period.
2007-02-12 22:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋