this guy in my class hates me and loves making my life a living hell. so he has been known to watch me during practice and then heckle me or make fun of me when i mess up. How can I endure practice knowing this might happen - AGAIN? thanks!
2007-02-12 14:02:46 · 15 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
softball practice, any kind of sport, really. He just likes making my life miserable.
2007-02-12 14:07:26 · update #1
I just hate going in there knowing he'll watch. I could just die.
2007-02-12 14:12:03 · update #2
Why would he go through all the effort and time it takes from his life to make you miserable? You threaten him in some way, or he wouldn't bother. His behavior is obsessive, and you might get somewhere by pointing this out to him (or having a friend do it for you). If you are such a "loser", why is he wasting so much time on you? Talking to the coach might be your only other option. Maybe they can keep him away from your practices, or at least stop him from heckling you.
2007-02-12 14:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that's happening to you. It really sucks that you have to deal with it. I can't give you any words of advice on how to make your living hell any tolerable, except to think about what a loser he is. He's wasting his life, sitting on his sorry butt, watching you, hoping that you'll screw up, just so that he can give you a hard time. Doesn't that sound like a complete waste? I mean what a loser? Why don't you let the team you practice with know what is going on and laugh point and stare at him. Or better yet ignore him. He's so not worth it.
2007-02-12 14:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by flutterby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, he sounds like a jerk. I agree with the other answerer who suggested you talk to the coach. I also think it's best to not let him know it bothers you. Throughout life we will all encounter bullies and jerks. How you respond to their taunts will determine whether they pick on you or someone else. Remind yourself before practice that this guy is an insecure loser if he has to pick on you to make himself feel better. Do your best and remind yourself that that's all that matters. Ignore him and when he heckles you try to talk with a teammate or do something else. Once he sees he can't get to you, he'll leave you alone. Good luck to you.
2007-02-12 14:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by a.lady.in.the.street 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are strange at that age. He probably actually likes you but he has no communication skills to tell you that he does so thus it is easier for him to make fun of you cuz that comes more naturally to him.
Just blow him a kiss when he makes a rude comment. Make him think it doesn't bother you one bit, give it right back to him but in a nice way. Kill him with kindness! He'll eventually retreat.
2007-02-12 14:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by Aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he hates you. I bet he actually likes you, but can't find the right way to express it. Anyway, who cares what he or anyone else thinks? You are better than whatever he does. Don't let him get to you.
2007-02-12 14:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a flyer with a picture of him with a guy (fake) and post it everywhere in school. Write something like "this is why he hates girls" under it. It will fix him right up
2007-02-12 14:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by hey now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of practice? Pretend that you dont care
2007-02-12 14:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat the bad guys like dogs, availed eye contacted, they well leave you a lone. it works for me towords bullys.
2007-02-12 14:10:17 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the couch
2007-02-12 14:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋