Why would my wife have a myspace page set to private?

Question

And she refuses to allow me to see the page and who she has on it. I think she has met someone online and doesn't want me to know about it.

Answer 1

I think you're right.

Answer 2

Honey! I understand your curiosity. But it is just that Her Space. Most times it's just like a diary or memorabilia she finds personal , doesn't want to share it .I probably has nothing what so ever to do with cheating, or wanting too. However if you think she is look for other signs, her inatentiveness to you, going of sex with you,secret phone calls it will get to that, or spending way too much time online in a certain Chat Room. If none of this is happening then let it go. If it is then talk openly and don't accuse her of anything. Find out where your relationship stands. Sometimes infatuations grow but fade quickly because they're not real Life so I get the feeling you don't have to worry right now. I think making your Partner feel Special in real life, by you woing her giving her flowers, candle light dinner occasionally, little love notes, dancing in the lounge soft music. will draw her away from the Computer.
Good Luck.

Answer 3

I'm married, and have a myspace page that's private. I basically set up the account so I could see other people's profiles, check up on my son and little sisters, stuff like that. So, having a private profile could be a plus - it makes it a little harder for the wierdos to contact you. :-)
BUT... the fact that she won't show it to you is concerning. My husband has probably never seen my myspace page, but I'd be more than willing to show him if he asked, because there's nothing there to hide. It states very clearly that I'm married, with children, and only looking for friends. It also mentions what a wonderful man I married. If she's not showing you, it's for a reason. It could just be a power struggle - this is "her" thing, and she feels you're trying to check up on her or control her. But, my first guess would be that there's some pics or something on there that she does NOT want you to see.
Hate to even suggest this - but have you tried figuring out her password and checking the site without her knowing?

Answer 4

I am married and have a myspace page set to private. I don't want just any person or weirdo reading my profile. I don't hide mine from my husband . I first joined because my daughter invited me to join. I like to keep up with my sister-in-laws, daughters and freinds ,son, brothers with the same interest. I wrote I was married and wrote how wonderful my husband is and about my children. I told him I had a myspace account. He didn't think it was a good idea because I had put pictures of our grandchildren on there and he is worried about computor hackers and virises. I tried to make sure it was safe. I did take the childrens pictures off. I go to myspace almost everyevening. . Your wife may just enjoy having something that is hers. Maybe she enjoys chatting with people that have the same interests. Sometimes my husband makes fun of things I do or say or belittles something I may say to someone or something I am interested in. If I am on the phone he is in the room criticizing things I am talking about or making comments. I don't have anything to hide, but it is nice to have a place where I can chat with friends that agree with me and enjoy the same things I do.
Maybe if you tell your wife you were just worried about why she wouldn't let you see it she would change her mind. Maybe she is just being defensive because she feels you don't trust her. If she is acting or behaving different in other ways, then maybe you have something to worry about. Maybe you should both go to counciling. Keeping secrets from each other isn't good.

Answer 5

Simply have one of your friends or just do it your self, create a new myspace page for you, don't use your picture , use a fake one, then click on her page and add to friends, don't lead on to who you are. Then if you are accepted as friend then you can go searching reading comments, etc... Or just have a key logger installed on your computer and then you can see a snapshot of every page that she does and she wont know about it. But your gonna feel like a real ****, if you do all of this an there is nothing there.

Answer 6

As far as I am concerned, if her my-space page was on the up-and-up, she should have no problem letting you look at it. Things like this should NOT be kept from a spouse. Chances are she is up to something. She probably thinks it's all innocent since it's just on-line, but statistics show again and again to turn into more and break up marriages. If I were you I'd be up front with her and make her come clean. Don't let it go.

Answer 7

Maybe she has a blog on her page and doesn't want you to see it. It is easier to share your feelings/problems with people you don't know for some reason than your spouse. Maybe she's embarrassed about what's on there. I don't allow my husband in my email, nor do I request to be in his. I like to have something that's my own. Don't sweat it - just let her have her space and don't make a big deal about it. If you sneak in the back door, though. You can never tell her if what you find is nothing. So now you have a secret to keep of your own. Is it worth it? You may not really want to know.

Answer 8

like someone else said make up a fake profile. I'm sure you know what your wife likes in a man or at least most of the things she likes. Find a pic of the kind of guy she is attracted to(google images) and use that as your profile pic, then add a bunch of info. Then request to be her friend and go from there. Jsut pretend you just started using myspace and looking for more friends.

Answer 9

i'd set up an internet site too. Or in case you do no longer p.c. to, ask her to ascertain her web site so which you will discover what it is all approximately. confirm under profile that it has that she's married. It exhibits whilst the guy final logged on, does she log on each and all of the time? do no longer stay on the indoors maximum factor. that's a sturdy difficulty. you don't get any junk that way. I truthfully have a myspace web site and it is been large to locate previous acquaintances. Which for me is a sturdy difficulty and for some, no longer so sturdy. don't be shocked if she has "acquaintances" that are ex's. a lot of my exes are on my web site yet my bf shouldn't complication.

Answer 10

fake page thing is a bad idea. now ur doing what shes doing which is lying. if she wont let u see the page then things are a little dangerous but before getting to wound up, talk to her. tell her u think that she has met someone and that u are concerned and u want to no why she wont show you. if she gets defensive and says no again then u should start to get concerned. do u have children? has she always been somewhat "private"?

Answer 11

You should go to metacafe.com and search the word (password) (get all your hidden passwords video) they have a video that show's u how to get some passwords enterned on your computer through a program u can download for free at another website i think u can get myspace passwords anyways it takes less than five minutes to do. I don't blame u she should not be hiding that kind of crap if she has nothing to hide. Hope this helps good luck ps the only women u should trust should be your mother