I'm seventeen years old and I find girls attractive. I've actually had daydreams about kissing other girls... but, I don't ever think about going any further, and if I do, if I picture myself going further with another girl; I just... think "ewww." I have no problems with Gays; in fact, I support them 100%, but... for ME to be "going further" with other girls; just the thought kind of... I dunno... I don't WANT to be bisexual; I'm afraid of what my family would think, considering my mom doesn't exactly like their ways, and we're like best friends.
Anyway, I'm so confused. Is this just a phase? Am I bisexual? Or maybe I'm just bi-curious?
2007-02-12 13:47:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its natural for everyone to think about the same sex. many people think like you do. i do. in fact, i use to have a relationship with a girl but i wasn't bisexual or lesbian. i just loved her. you can still love a person and not be bi or gay. just like how you love your friends or family. but i loved her.
so no, your not confused...just normal
my mother is just like yours. she doesn't approve of gays or bisexuals so i couldn't tell her that i had a relationship with another girl. SHE WOULD FLIP!
its just a phase that everyone goes through...even guys
i have a guy-friend who wants to have sex with another one of my guy friends but he is 100% NOT GAY!!!
so you are normal :)
2007-02-12 13:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer. If you are female and find only women attractive you are a lesbian, if you find both sexes physically attractive you are bi-sexual and if you find only men attractive you are heterosexual.
Virtually no-one is purely lesbian of heterosexual. We all have an element of bi-sexuality in our heads somewhere. Probably for most of us we have a clear inclination one way or the other but for some the attraction is equal in both directions. Hoping not to be bi-sexual is like hoping not to be human.
Remember that being attracted to the same sex does not mean that you ever have to do anything about it. Having an attraction does not mean you need to abandon your principles, morality, conscious choice or anything else. It only means that you have an attraction.
2007-02-12 13:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nicely, i'm a bisexual too.. yet by some ability, in case you have been ever to compliment facets, it takes technique. does no longer advise that boys have dick, it gave you exhilaration in that section. your difficulty is somewhat comparable to me. extremely some the girls quite lesbian turns to me better than boys yet by some ability purely relax n persist with the song. sexuality is actual fluid. at present u would be a bisexual, the subsequent day u would desire to be a lesbian and the subsequent day u would desire to grow to be right away. so purely persist with the flow and don't permit this sexuality concern hang-out you
2016-09-29 01:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for everyone to think about what it would be like to be gay/bisexual... and some people realize that they actually are attracted to the opposite sex. I still consider myself to be bicurious... but yeah I'm definitely leaning towards the whole bisexual idea now. Don't be pressured to make a decision about your sexual orientation... it's up to you and you only!!! Be bicurious for as long as you need to.
2007-02-12 14:49:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More bi-curious. PLEASE don't be afraid of whatever you chose to be! You also maybe surprised to find out who really is a lesbian! Watch the "L" word on Showtime!
2007-02-12 15:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be bi sexual! but yeah i picture the same things you do, but i wouldn't be a full bi sexual i would say your bi curious.
2007-02-12 14:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by queeny_311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋