she wanted to break up because i upset her,i went on to pester and beg her to forgive me,it was a wrong step but now she avoids me totally, even my friends.It's been a month since we broke up.
my mistake was that i went on to beg her after we broke up,it annoyed her and got her even angrier,what does avoiding me actually mean??
i've lost her trust,i don't know if she still has affections for me.Tomorrow's valentine's....what should i do to salvage this situation,i'm so desperate
2007-02-12 13:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry tomorrows not v day its the 14th
2007-02-12 13:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you lost her dude! A WOMAN DOESN;T LIKE TO BE REJECTED. YOU HURT HER BAD WHEN YOU WALKED AWAY & PRETENDED NOT TO CARE . Deserting her is the thing that tears apart the security of the special relationship she thought she had. You were different in her eyes .... but now she questions that. ....but whats worse is you made her question her own thoughts. Are YOU worth getting hurt over again. Yep ... thats what shes thinking all because ,she really loved YOU. Devotion doesn't desert!!!!! You did loose her trust. Some people do not GIVE that to just anybody. YOU WERE 1 of the lucky ones because ONCE she trusted YOU> BUT NOW>>>> OH WELL!!!!!! All iI can suggest is that you be sincere from here on out. Its what you do now.... not what you say. Its time to try to earn her trust back if it can be done... Good luck.
2007-02-12 22:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Wednesday is Valentine's day not Tuesday....so now you have a little more time to figure all of this out.
It has been a month since the two of you broke up??? I would say that at this point you need to let it go....If she is avoiding you it is because she wants nothing to do with you. If it were me in her shoes ....I would be annoyed if you bought anything for me for Valentine's gift. I would have to tell you to move on. Things happen and some times you have to roll with it......<3
2007-02-12 21:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid that it doesn't sound salvageable. It's already been a month. If she still had affection for you, she would have got back together with you by now. Sorry. Also, Valentine's Day is not tomorrow.
2007-02-12 21:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should make it like a movie. get someone to deliver a bouquet of flowers and have the card say "one step of love" and then get her a teddy bear and have a card attached saying "one step of trust" and then a box of choc. with a card that says "one step of commitment" and finally a dinner made for HER ONLY and leave a card saying "one chance of forgivness" or something like that. i know it might cost alot but it seems u love the girl. by the way the info i used was not from a real movie so dont worry about anyone knowing abou it
2007-02-12 21:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
btw 2marrow's now val day..its the day after 2marrow
u should send her a letter along with a nice necklace, bracelet, or sumthing and write how sorry you are and that you still have deep feelings for her. send along a nice rose too, maybe.she should get the message if it's not an annoying letter. personally handwrite it in pen
2007-02-12 21:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by v_tays_z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wednesday is valentines day....Get her a nice card, with an apology and flowers, she is probably expecting you to get her something too......Jesus loves you
2007-02-12 21:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well can you get back to us and tell us if anything esle happened since it's after valentines day is she still mad at you are you still bugging her let us know we'll try to answer
2007-02-16 21:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TO EVERYBODY ANSWERING
IN AUSTRALIA TOMORROW IS FEB 14 AND IT IS VALENTINES DAY!
2007-02-12 21:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by sexymumma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do to lose her trust?
2007-02-12 21:51:44 · answer #10 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋