We've been together for 3 years and she has shown no signs of being a lesbian. Could it be she wants to please me or is this her way of breaking it to me gently that she may be bi?
2007-02-12 13:35:34 · 20 answers · asked by teeyodi 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
only go through with this if you don't plan on marrying her. you never marry the person you had a threesome with. it's a million fights waiting to happen and a whole lot of awkward moments before during and after.
2007-02-12 13:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the idea of a threesome makes for a better fantasy than a reality. Someone almost always ends up getting hurt. Worst case scenarios: If she is bringing in another girl to please you, she will end up resentful because you enjoyed being with said girl. If she is bringing in another girl to break it to you that she is bi, she may likely leave you to be with this girl. Either way, you're looking at trouble. But, some people are able to have threesomes and it works great for them. Just be careful and protect yourself.
2007-02-12 13:50:08 · answer #2 · answered by Vakari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely compromise. you probable can do very virtually each and every thing you describe. Get her a present, do the candles and music and function some chocolate there for her too. purely ignore going out to devour. or you could order some thing ahead from a effective position, p.c.. it up and convey it lower back to the homestead and set all of it up on the dinner table. You dont opt for to be to stuck on precisely the way you opt for the day or nighttime to do.
2016-11-27 19:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all that this from a girl myself she wants to do something that will spice up your night and she may not even be doing it for herself it might just be for you! what ever you do let her lead and dont act too into the other gal coz it might cause a bit of jealousy but apart from that make the most of your lucky!
2007-02-12 13:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand These fantasies. But be aware they often backfire. She may think it wont bother her, then discover it does. You better make sure she is having to much fun to be upset. Or it could be a test just to see if you will do it.
2007-02-12 13:52:10 · answer #5 · answered by oldmanwitastick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you should go for it. What happens if next time she wants to bring in a guy instead of a girl??????
2007-02-12 13:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by marilynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be curious and want to try it, or she may want to please you. Why don't you ask her what her motivation is? If it is something you both are curious about and your relationship is solid then you should be fine. Just agree on any limits ahead of time.
2007-02-12 13:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Shelley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just beinnice to the girl that she doesn't have a date
other hand maybe watch it
2007-02-12 13:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Marques 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like it to me. She's probably cheating on
you with this person anyway.
2007-02-12 13:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh I would say it is never a good idea to do that.
2007-02-12 13:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by good_girl_no_more 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋