ive been ignoring this girl 4 the past 6 weeks i mistakingly answered twice & hung up she still texting me saying she hasnt forgot about me. she's ugly & i managed to keep a nonchalant look on my face the 1st time i saw her(surprisingly) i dont want anything 2 do with her, yet i dont want to break little heart.
2007-02-12 13:17:26 · 13 answers · asked by 6figurenigger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
women who call guys should learn if a man wants to talk to you he will call you. We are not disfunctional. If we want a women we know how to persue her.
so don't call us! let us call you and if he doesn't answer an answering machine or a text message that you know he got.
He is trying to get away tactfully. so bug off.
I don't know why women do that. They assume if they like you that you like them. Which is usually not the case.
Some guys say can I put you on hold for a minute.
that is a clue girls that someone elses call is more important than you so hang up.
She may be beautiful to someone else she just isn't to you.
You may have to be embarrassed and tell her that.
Why are women so hard to get a message to.
If you invite him in and he says he is tired???
You are never to tiried for someone you want.
2007-02-12 13:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by Steven 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even know what to say really. you sound like the type of person that only cares about looks. did you even care what her personality was like before you instantly judged her as ugly? there is something called ugly but it's not from the outside but it's from the inside. the word "ugly" means hideous on the inside. people seem to think that looks mean everything and they don't. they define "ugly" as someone that isn't the least bit attractive but I've found another meaning. "ugly" is when someone isn't nice on the inside. by the way if you don't want to break her heart then give her a chance. you may be passing up the best relationship of your life cause you're pushing her away cause she's "ugly"...whatever you mean by that. and I'm sure what I'm telling you doesn't mean a thing but you need SOMEONE to tell you the truth about men like you. why women are so vain about weight and looks. I'm sorry you couldn't keep a straight face when you saw her and I'm sure she was having just as much trouble. you're so ugly on the inside it's shining on the out. what a cruel person you are. you instantly judged her before you knew her. ya know what? I take back what I said about giving her a chance. I hope you're last guy on Earth she ever ends up with. you pompus self-centered male shovinous pig. well heck what if YOU were ugly? if that isn't already true how would you like to be? how would you like to wake up and look in the mirror and see a hideous person there before you? but on top of that the person in the mirror would be more hideous on the inside. how would you feel about that though? would you want someone to say: he was just SO ugly that I couldn't keep a straight face when I was looking at him!
I hope you have a nice life with whoever you end up with cause chances are she'll look like a super model and be stunning on the outside but be a rotten apple on the inside.
2007-02-12 22:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the fact that it's obvious you're not interested, I don't think it's right for you to judge a book by it's cover. I happen to know a lot of guys like you and if you're too self-centered to even give her a chance, then I feel sorry for you. I'm sorry that you're so concerned about your reputation that you can't even give this girl a chance, despite that fact that she likes you. I'm sorry that you were raised this way and I'm sorry that you can't see past someone's looks. You don't even know her and you can't even give her a chance to maybe show you that, suprise suprise, she may actually be a good match for you (no way!). I'm also sorry that it's "suprising" that you were able to keep a straight face when you saw her the first time.
I can only hope that what I've said has opened your eyes but from my past experience with guys like you, I' pretty sure everything I said went in one ear and out the other. But, who knows?
2007-02-12 21:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you don't want to hurt her but seriously you can't lead her on. If you text her back or answer her phone calls some girls take that as your being interested. The most humane thing you could do at this point would be to let her know that you're just not interested. You don't have to tell her that it's because she's not attractive, it's not like you owe her an explanation of your deepest emotions, but ask her to leave you alone because it makes you uncomfortable and call it quits.
2007-02-12 21:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by flutterby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u r being insensitive 2 some1 elses feelings. Y would u lead her to believe that u may be interested n her when ur actually not, just let her down easy. U already know that she is going 2 take it pretty bad, so quit procrastinating and be a man and get it over.
2007-02-12 21:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ugly is as ugly does....
if you don't get it, then you need to have a thought and maybe someone will teach you the meaning, the way you NEED to be taught.
Maybe you are crude...you're also stupid, vain, an idiot, thoughtless, irresponsible and self centered...
Get it...I bet you will...
2007-02-12 21:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try simply telling her that you're "just not into her" and ask her to please move on. Be nice about it. Don't just tell her she's ugly. B/C, I'm sure you know if she has a good personality or not, and she certainly must not be very nice or else you might give her a chance....
2007-02-12 21:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are gonna have to answer that phone and tell her it's not gonna work out between you two. she seems a little dense and you are gonna have to be blunt. It will hurt less if she knows from the beginning instead of waiting a long time.
2007-02-12 21:21:55 · answer #8 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, how kind of you to not wanna break an ugly girl´s "little heart"... a**hole. Hopefully she´ll realize by herself how much of a piece of trash you are.
2007-02-12 21:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by No se 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but that is an incredibly cruel thing to do to someone... if you dont like her you need to just tell her that you arent interested... be honest but be nice about it... dont string her along cause thats the worst thing to do to someone.
2007-02-12 21:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋