? for those that are remarried?

Question

I hate to admit that I think of leaving too much. Whenever we fight (not that often) or when my stepkids are being jerks (they are 18yo twins) I tend to hide in my bedroom and think about how nice it would be to be back in my condo my myself! It worries me. Is this normal?

Answer 1

Of course it's normal. Maybe you need some time to yourself, or out with friends. Whenever you start to feel this way, remember those time you were in your condo and what you wanted is what you have now.

Answer 2

Wow, I can see where you are. . .
I'm sorry , but I haven't remarried yet, and that's
one of the reasons.
Been divorced for a while now and always aware
the rumble in case... Someone with grown ups
would be a better choice.. but now that you're in it
I think you should speak to your husband heart-heart
and see if you both can come up to a good approach.

if in case your husband take his children's side,
then I think you have a problem that won't leave you
alone.

You don't wanna end up crazy,, and the best is to
say goodbye as a trial and see..

Hope things work out for you.

Answer 3

It is VERY hard to have a "blended Family" I had my two kids....and my wife....of now 16 years had three girls. Yes we had tough times.....and yes there where times that I felt as you do....and I am sure my wife did as well....but what I did when things got really bad was try to remember what brought us together in the first place....and then everything seemed to fall into place. No its not easy...but then what relationship is? Just hang in there....talk....and remember what made you a couple to begin with *S*
Best of luck

Answer 4

I think it's normal to sometimes wonder "What If...?" but if you love your husband you work through those feelings. I think a good marriage is defined as having far more good times than bad. No union is perfect.

Answer 5

Very! maybe you should do a weekend GET AWAY! nothing wrong with a little RNR

Answer 6

its nice to hear some one Else's opion about remarriage