hey ok im a guy in junior high and i go to a catholic school. as of now im kinda well weird according to people. some think im gay and IM NOT! what do i do to become popular and VERY COOL, liked by everyone and not be hated or anything. How do i make more friends, and be invited over peoples houses and go places and stuff. How do i get some girls to like me? please help. as of now i wear hollister and abercrombie trying to fit in but it doesnt work well. i also have acne and im kinda fat but im tall. please help. help me!!and i dont wanna do anything crazy b.c. people already think im a fag and im not. i also am friends with the kinda not so popular kids give me instructions what to do, without being a jerk .PLEASE! thank you so much.
2007-02-12 12:55:37 · 2 answers · asked by Chuck Cartalono 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
really... its just confidence and standing up for yourself... no matter what the cost. thats it.
it doesnt matter what you wear... how you look... what i just told you... thats it.
i have known "popular" kids, that believe me were damn ugly, chubby, dressed "poor", and were still "cool".
again the key is CONFIDENCE. and if ANYONE challenges you about it.. you stick up for yourself... verbally or at times physically. thats it.
and i tell you girls LOVE confidence.
2007-02-14 23:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Loathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is really, truly, liking yourself. Once you really like yourself, others will see it, and some will be attracted to you. Trying to hard only scares people away. This would be a really great conversation to have with your school counselor (don't worry, that person will keep it confidential), or with your parents.
2007-02-13 18:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋