I have never been able to have an orgasm when I am on the bottom or in any other position. I have tried to relax and everything and it just doesnt work. Has anyone ever had this problem and what could a person do to be able to enjoy it both ways. P.S. I am a girl, if that helps
2007-02-12 12:49:05 · 6 answers · asked by me m 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
On top, you orgasm from your clit rubbing on him.
That's why you orgasm. Also, you get to control your speed
and how deep. In other positions, either you or him can rub your
clit to try to get you to orgasm or experience more pleasure/sensation.
Maybe trying more/different positions will let him hit your gspot better.
I have had orgasms on top and not. Usually, I can orgasm
if my back is really arched and there are pillows under my back.
Almost as if I'm sitting up.
Good luck, I hope you can experience an orgasm through your
gspot one day because it's great!!
2007-02-12 13:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by downs1229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. When you're man is on top try to lift your butt off the bed and towards him...lol. Trust me. Works every time. Good luck.
2007-02-12 21:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm assuming that you orgasm when you're on top because you are controlling how deep your partner goes etc. you can basically do what feels good to you and therefore orgasm
2007-02-12 20:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Queenie Peavey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting the stimulation you need when you are on top. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Just keep using that position.
2007-02-12 21:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by aqx99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get more stimulation of your clitoris that way...its NBD, dont worry about it...just try relaxing and experimenting more
2007-02-12 20:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by zdonz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way so i dont know what to do?
2007-02-12 20:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋