What am I doing or what vibe could I be sending that I keep attracting unavailable men? For example, married co-worker, my manager, ex of friend.
Do you think it could because I know I can't have them so I act like myself and don't get shy around them or do you think it's something else?
Also, before you go telling me to leave these guys alone, I am not, and never have, done anything with any of them. They just seem to be the ones who flirt with me and pay me the most attention.
2007-02-12 12:45:04 · 11 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I am a guy but beleive or not have had vaguely similarish sentimental 'love' pattern triangle thingys going on around and inside me. Go back to school books anything. Get wise about stuff. Know what we all will eventually know. I say get into your head build on your strengths. Construction will eliminate your crazy intentions. I know what. Start blowing up baloons and popping them. Will this attract their attention. Someone may love you for it and you may/probably find true love. I have. Its great but if you havent experienced yet you cant know what Im talking about. But some day you may. As a fellow citizen on planet earth I shall offer you these words of literally love. Find peace my friend because life is meant to be fizzingly greatly amazing ooooox.
2007-02-12 13:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by James W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you feel more comfortable around them because you know nothing can happen with them. But it could also be that they flirt with you for that very same reason. Maybe they feel comfortable flirting with you because they know you're attached and won't take it "seriously." Or it could be that they see you as a challenge. Some people always want what they can't have...and a woman who is attached to another guy is taboo and risky. Who really knows...all that matters is that you keep it straight in your own mind.
2007-02-12 21:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a freind who did this for years. She would choose men who weren't into her, who were gay or not available for whatever reason. It is the same as putting up a shield so that you do not meet someone that you have to give to emotionally.
When married men or co-workers flirt with you do not flirt back. Ignore them in that sense and be professional.
Look for nice guys to date.
2007-02-12 20:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by ciao_gina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think people who attract these kinds of men may have a low self worth, so these men see this and take advantage thinking they will be able to get what they want off u easier than with someone else. something u are conveying to them that makes them think your available. just don't give these types any attention back and after awhile they will stop.
2007-02-12 22:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they flirt with you just don't flirt back because all kinds of guys flirt with all kinds of women so nothing new in that. also with guys they always tend to want more because they are unavailible it's probably not you who keep on pulling them in it's probably just them tryin to be DOGGGGS! PURPOSELY!
2007-02-12 20:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by sexy mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...it's good that you are not doing anything with your manager and co-worker. i say keep the relationship between your manager and co-worker strictly business. nothing personal and don't respond to their flirts towards you. cause if they are not careful...it could easily be harrassment. so please be careful especially with work.
2007-02-12 20:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just having a bad run, honey. Keep on truckin, you'll find a good guy.
2007-02-12 20:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens more than you know. It's not just you. Just keep doing the right thing...
2007-02-12 20:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find someone special for you...pray...prayer opens the door for God to work in our lives....Jesus loves you
2007-02-12 21:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are treading on really thin ice.
you say they are flirting with you, you must be giving them some incentive to continue this behavior.....
2007-02-12 20:49:26 · answer #10 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋