I am in 6th grade... LOL
There is a boy who has been a really good friend to me for like 2 years now. i quickly began crushing on him, and i think hewas on me, too.
at the two first school dances, we slowdanced during every song
NEway, about a month ago, i recieved an email from him that asked if i considered us "going out", and if we werent, would i like to. i said yes, but only if we did everything possible to not let it affect our friendship.
things were a bit different, but not much. we continued sitting at lunch together like we always have. etc.
Friday, was our most recent dance. that morning, i got an email saying that he wanted to "break up" because he didnt feel the same way he used to about me. I cried a lot, but still went to the dance. the entire time, he and his friends were dancing near us, but whenever a slow dance came, he was out of sight.
i dont know why the morning of the dance, he would suddenly break up w/ me. i know for sure there arent any other girls.
WHY??
2007-02-12 12:22:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am in 8th grade so i kno wat its like. It could possibly be that he didn't want the pressure of having a girlfriend. He might feel busy and wanted to take something off his plate. He could of possibly just lost his feelings for you. In this case its gonna be OK. It is only teenage love, and you will probably date him again in the future. Try to be calmer around him and not act so upset.
2007-02-12 12:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in 6th grade I personally did not stare at boobs for they were still maturing at that age. I would have to say no that question. Now times have change a little bit and I still would have to say no they are curious a bit on girls and boobs at 6th grade. But when your in 7th or 8th grade the dating really kicks into gear and they start to stare then a bit. They react with drool sometimes, or say something stupid, or they want to touch them, that is many answers to the how will they will react to them. It depends on the group your with.
2016-05-24 03:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since ur in sixth grade, u shouldn't even have boyfriend/girlfriend things. your too young for them. anyway u shouldn't freak because he probably doesn't want his friends to find out and start rumors. He also is probably noticing that it is a little too early and thinks that he should take it slow. talk to him and don't try to avoid him. u shouldn't argue with him either. wait about 2 to 3 years before starting this thing. it might seem a long time and at points it will but u just have to keep going and the time will come soon. the time I recommend for dates and that stuff is in 8th and 9th grade. especially to start in 9th grade. good luck in a few years but solve the problem by talking to him.
2007-02-12 12:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by buenosaires101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To bad you didnt think to say, " I was just going to email you and say the same thing"!
Dont shed another tear over him.
Pretend like this does not bother you in the least.
Hold you head up high and continue to laugh and smile as if nothing ever happened.
IT will KILL Him
Dont respond to his next email for a few days...telll him you have been really busy
(dont elaborate)
IT will make him SICK with jealousy!
2007-02-12 12:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT IS HIS PROBLEM? He broke up with you on the day of the dance. TELL HIM OFF! If that happened to me, the only way I could ever stay friends with him was to get the pissed offness out of my system and make sure it NEVER happens again
2007-02-12 12:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by xandrasings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also in 6th grade, and I"m sorry to say in 6th grade relationships don't mean anything.
2007-02-13 10:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by mcnaz86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not deserve that. 6th grade boys are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy to immature for GF anyways. guys always start to act weird for no reason. it could be that one of his freinds said stuff about you, he felt weird, etc. try to find out why he did it.
2007-02-12 12:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by kyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like you anymore? You are in 6th grade.. no feelings will last forever in the 6th grade..
2007-02-12 12:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for you. It's very strange. My suggestion is to be mad at him until he explains and remember the pct about being friends.
2007-02-12 12:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck? that is soo sad. id be soo mad. im sorry. you should just go up to him and be like..why did you break up with me the day of the dance?
2007-02-12 12:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋