every time i c u, u make me bad about herself and very sorry about me. so pls stop contact me before ill do something wrong again, that means the pain will become greater and harder next time......
So everyone.....please......i know there is a chance for us if i really try hard to beg her....but i am so lost....with empty brain....ofcause i love her and i want her back but in the other hand i know that she don't really love me at all, but will time make the different? can i actually make a woman love me? is it worth trying or just waste of my time and i will receive greater pain???? god! i love her.....
2007-02-12 12:15:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As the Godfather said to Johnny Fontaine:
"You can act like a MAN!"
And as I always say, you can learn how to spell. Maybe if you didn't whine and beg so much, and spelled correctly, she would be interested. Why would anyone want to be with someone so pathetic? It's humiliating.
2007-02-12 12:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm sorry things haven't worked out. If she was your girlfriend, it would probably be best to move on, hard as it is.
On the other hand, if she's your wife, there's a more permanent commitment and I'd say keep trying to show your love to her, but you may have to do it in a different way. There's a book my husband and I read before we married that explains what I mean. It's called "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. In this book he explains that people have different "languages" they use to give/receive love. They are:
1) Getting/Giving Gifts,
2) Physical Touch,
3) Quality Time,
4) Acts of Service, and
5) Words of Affirmation.
So for example, if your love language is Physical Touch, but hers is Acts of Service, she's going to feel more loved if you do the laundry than if you kiss her. It may still be too late, but I'd try to find out how she likes to be loved and "speak the language". It's definitely worth a shot. No matter what happens, God loves you deeply. . . and His love never changes!
2007-02-12 13:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by GodLovesYou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is act like it doesn't really bother and tell her that if you can't be with her you at least want to be friends. This will be weird but bear with it. After about a week of this you and her will either realize that you belong together or that you really should be just friends or maybe even that you can't get along but at least you won't be groveling at her feet come on get some pride and stand up. Maybe you should talk to your parents or a counselor, they may be old school but for the most part they know what there talking about. Best of luck and God Bless.
2007-02-12 12:23:54 · answer #3 · answered by johnathank21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she left you then she has already decided that it was over between the two of you, and you would be smart to move on you can not make someone love you and you are right time will make the difference there will come a day in your life that you will say to yourself how could I have ever been so dumb? I know i have been there done that
2007-02-12 13:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by billc4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not force someone to love you. Just like we can't make you stop loving her. Begging is not the way to go. The only thing you can do is move on the best you can. It may hurt now to be without her , but it will hurt worse to continue after someone that doesn't love you.
2007-02-12 12:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be obsessed with her...love can't be forced. If she doesn't love you there is no diamond in the work that can bring her back to you. Let her go, before you get more hurt. Take good care of yourself, and start preparing your heart for someone else, someone who really will appreciate it, and will reciprocate your LOVE!!!
Good Luck, and Happy Valentines!
2007-02-12 13:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by PRLadyDama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone who can love you back the way you love her, unconditionally and with all their heart. It would do you no favors for her to come back to you if she can't feel that way about you. Give yourself some time to heal and try to move on.
2007-02-12 12:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD LOVE YOURSELF FIRST MAN!!!!!!!! forget about her for a moment and think about you and your own personal needs.okay you love her but you said it your self that she probably don't love you like you do her. you should know that when she sees that you love her and would do any thing to please her she's just going to walk all over you to get what she wants. you could do better with some one who actually does love you if she can't stay commited to you guys relationship she's doing bad on her part of being a good girlfriend.so walk around with your head held high and confidence like a lion and get you some one who's up to your level
2007-02-12 12:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by sexy mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't make anyone love you, no matter how much you love them. I'm sorry that you're in pain, but love hurt sometimes. Work on letting her go.
2007-02-12 12:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may lover her, but you shouldn't put yourself through the pain. if shes not treating you right then you deserve better. i hope you find happieness somewhere
2007-02-12 12:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by Samski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋