i though a woman always looks 4 a man who 'll be crazy about her 4 a lifetime. And it is hard for me to find a woman that I truly love, that can last for a lifetime. I used to be a cold person, not telling or showing how much i love a person. Then i learn from the pass, I told her how much i loved and care about her but even tho that didn't work. She decide to leave me and i am in great pain, because i love her so much, leave nothing behind. She said the fact is I don't truly like you, (but thats not what she said to me before)........and i feel very sorry about you, i hate myself and you are the type that i have always been looking for. I am full of pain, but i know that nothing can be done to make someone love you. It is impossible to accept this situation. I cry and cry....after we broke up I still miss her a lot and I still want to see her, so i went to see her without showing and sadness but deep inside i am crying....it is hard but i did it. She said every time i c u, you mak
2007-02-12 12:02:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find someone else.
2007-02-12 12:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER ever EVER go to her house again!
how would you feel if someone else was there or if you found evidence that someone else WAS there!
Truth is, this woman did you a favor. As painful as it was, be glad that she did not use you or cheat on you! She made up a reason and cut you loose. NOW you have to be a man about it an accept that.
Have a funeral for her. Symbolic of course.
Pretend that she is dead.
Seriously, go in the back yard and light a flame to her name
Remove everything in your house that makes you think of her then tell yourself that she died.
That means no phone calls (shes dead)
NO calling her no driving by her house,
NOTHING
time will heal you but you hve to help.
Go try to date
go see a movie
call up some old friends
get a hobby
donate your time to habitat for humanity
DO something that keeps your mind off of her
ONCE YOU MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE< SHE WILL BE CALLING YOU back
2007-02-12 12:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems that girls are always wanting what they can't have.As soon as the challenge is over and they know you are there for them,they don't want you anymore.You sound like a good dude,and believe me I've been through the exact same thing at least twice.Sometimes it makes you feel better just to know that you are not alone.The pain will pass.Love is a hard game to play!
2007-02-14 15:54:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ends this way because this is the way it ends at least 5 times every night here on Yahoo Answers. Welcome to the men spurned by "love" we can't say we're glad to see you join us, but we saved you a seat.
The more PC answer (without so much projecting on my part) is that some women don't know a good thing when they see it, and callously shatter the hearts of men other women yearn for.
The ranting answer is that women may just derive pleasure from dropping a man's heart into a metaphorical volcano just to hear it sizzle and pop before going to do it again.
Take your pick, either way, it's over, Rover.
2007-02-12 12:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw im very very sorry. Heart breaks are the worst feeling ever. Women do want a guy like you that loves them unconditionally and forever. You'll find a girl perfect for you someday but I know it must be so hard to accept this heartbreak but you'll eventually feel better, try not to think about it (i know its hard) and do something that you enjoy doing to take your mind off it for awhile
2007-02-12 12:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you. I have been where you are. As terrible as it is the pain is it is a necessary part of the healing process. As much as I know you want her back and as much as I know you just want to be alone, it is important to be around those that do love you. As time passes the pain will subside and you will begin to heal. But in the mean time, cry your tears, morn the loss of love, but remember that others do love you and you will be happy again.
2007-02-12 12:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by badsanta40 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were like me, you were more in love with the idea of being in love. You are a good person. She is not the one though. You should move on. It is tough but when you find someone else, you will forget about this one...Good Luck!
2007-02-12 12:07:03 · answer #7 · answered by C. A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u made life too easy for her, loving her unconditionally, maybe this is not what she was looking for in life. u will miss her but acceptance is the key to get past this. she says she doesn't really like u, well we can't control what happens to us, but we can control how we respond to it. she is sorry she doesn't love u, because u may be just the right man for her, only she doesn't know it. good luck.
2007-02-12 14:22:13 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never understand and it may not seem fair, but you have to BELIEVE that God has a plan and will make something positive come out of this situation. God uses EVERY situation for a positive reason. Just hold on and you will see!
2007-02-12 12:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by TwinkaTee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a learning experience, just because it didnt work out with her doesnt mean that you should close yourself again. You are not the problem, maybe she is just attracted to guys that treat her like S#%@. At least you skipped the drama.
2007-02-12 12:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jadie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your not going thro anything none of us went thro b4.
When my wife died I felt a lot of pain, it will pass.
Don't stay home,get out hang out with friends, look around for things to do. keep busy and soon you will get over it.
Try yoga, I know it sounds corny but it helps trust me.
You'll be ok.
2007-02-12 12:12:35 · answer #11 · answered by Mijoecha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋