There is this girl in my class who really bothers me. She follows me and my best friend around and we have tried in so many different ways to ask her to leave us alone without hurting her feelings but every time she just laughed at us. My friend finally told her to leave us alone and that we don't want her stalking us anymore, because all that this girl ever does is follows us around and bother us. She is really hyper so this kind of makes it worse. Last year my friend and I hung out with her because she had like no other friends I swear! And she is rude and hurts peoples feelings and we already gave her a chance but she is still mean! What do I do?
2007-02-12 11:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, If you decided to hang out with her from the bottom of your heart... then she might not be as annoying as you think.
be nice becuase more than likely, you will end up working for her when you grow up..
Good luck
2007-02-12 12:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by GMaster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she follows you and try to stick around with the two of you means that she feels that there is some affinity with one or both of you. Have a good talk with her about her weaknesses and try change her. Cherish the relationships you can build with people. She will be grateful to you one day.
2007-02-12 12:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Frankenstein 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't laugh because this happened to me and even though you may chuckle my answer is very serious. Are you ready? Okay here it is: get HER a friend. Some other nerd. Match ehr up with some other obnoxious person. You may have to group date once or twice to get it gonig but it works beauitfully. It works. We did it. I swear it works. These two annoying morons are now inseperable.
2007-02-12 12:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your friend could benefit from an assessment. Sometimes there's a glitch in the brain that causes people to miss out on socialization. They can discover how she can absorb it and help her fit in better.
Talk to your school counsellor and ask her to intervene.
2007-02-12 12:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time you find her some other friends. Try and find some people who like the things she likes and introduce them. If she likes them, she's their problem. Or you could just try talking to her and tell her if she's gonna B ur friend, she needs to start acting nicer and less like a b!@#h!
2007-02-12 13:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can u say 9 1 1
looks like someone needs a reality check
it's up 2 u
2007-02-12 12:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell an adult and stand up to her tell her the way you feel and that you won't hang out for her if she keeps this up. Its her choice the way she acts and if she is still rude, its her loss not to be your friend.
2007-02-12 12:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her one more time to leave you alone if that does not work maybe try going to yhe counslers office and ask if he/she will talk to her for you, but make sure that the cousler acts like they noticed the prob and not that you came to him/her for help
that doesn't work beat the sh@# out of her...lol....don't do that
2007-02-12 12:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by christie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is lonely and its sad she probably does not relise the effect she is having on others, tell her straight that it is because of the way she is to others that they don,t want her around, you may be doing her a favour .
2007-02-12 12:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by denny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finda guy friend to hangout with so he can help get you out of that situation by taking up all your time
2007-02-12 12:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by thestarhooligan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋