Well I have been in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend and we are taking our relationship to another level meaning sex. Well Im not of age right now to take care of children, so I don't want to get pregnant and have any kids. I am on birth control(pills) and we will use a condom but I just wanna know how to have sex without worrying about getting pregnant!
2007-02-12 11:56:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
the more birth control methods u use, the less likely u are to get pregnant. but as long as u have sex there will probably be a part of u that fears pregnancy. if ur that concerned about it, maybe you should wait until u are of age 2 care for children in case a pregnancy should result...
2007-02-12 12:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex! That is the only 100% effective way to not get pregnant!
You are about as protected as possible! If you are still worrying maybe you should consider waiting awhile longer before having sex again! My now husband & I have been together since high school, we were both terrified of getting pregnant, so for several years sex was kind of a special occasion thing, as for the rest of the time we found other ways to be with each other sexually without sex. We began dating at age 16 & age17. We are now 26 & 27, and have been married for 5 years with 1, 3 ½ year old son! You don’t have to have sex to take your relationship to another level. Sex is an act, a way to share yourselves and have children with someone you love. Knowing what I know now I would have waited to have sex. I would have stayed a virgin until marriage. My husband & I weren’t married when we first had sex but I was his first! I wish so much that I could have held on to my virginity as a special gift for my husband! I tell this to everyone, so that maybe they can have a chance to share that with their husbands someday! Good luck!
2007-02-12 12:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Boppysgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one.. taking birth control and using a condom is a very smart choice. Two there is also a birth control.. which is an IUD that can be put up you and can be taken out whenever you feel like having kids. These have worked wonders. I have had mine in for 3 years and I am married and don't use any other protection and I haven't gotten pregnant. I had it taken out last year and got pregnant two months later. Goodluck and keep using two protections at all times...
2007-02-12 12:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanna know the real secret to not getting pregnant??? Don't have sex! I dont mean to sound rude, but it's true. No matter what, nothing is 100% effective. Now to be extra extra cautious is continue taking your birth control, have him use a condom, and buy spermicide strips (they're where ever you buy condoms). Good luck and have fun
2007-02-12 12:05:06 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, you are on the pill and you use condoms, so as long as you are using them properly, it's unlikely you will get pregnant. But just remember the only 100% sure fire way of not getting pregnant is to not have sex. So be careful.
2007-02-12 12:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It is 100% impossible. The only guaranteed way to not get pregnant is to not have sex.
Pills fail and so do condoms. I was a mere 6 hours late taking a pill one time. That little "mistake" just turned 6 and is the joy of my life!
2007-02-12 12:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest getting the implant in your arm it will be one less stress for you because you wont have to worry about taking your pill and at the same time and all that crap and still use condoms you'll be fine sweetie you'll relax soon once your used to it and you will have a few scares we all do but have some pregnancy tests ready for in case you get a scare that way you wont have to stress about getting one if you dont have the money or the access when the time comes good luck! just take a deep breath...
2007-02-12 12:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the above answers are excellent. But I was young once and in love, and sex was very hard to abstain from. Because we're only human, stay on the pill, use condoms, and don't have sex when you're ovulating. It wouldn't hurt to douche immediately after either. Be safe, and good luck.
2007-02-12 12:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by Angelique 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if your on the pill theres is a good chance you will not get pregnant. by using a condom you will give yourself more assurance that you wont get pregnant but more importantly you will protect yourself from STD's. having a baby you can live with having aids will kill you. the is no hurry in having sex. good luck
2007-02-12 12:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by mark28269 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to sleep with someone you should be ready to accept that pregnancy is a possibility. By using both the pill and condom you are unlikely to get pregnant...but it still could happen.
2007-02-12 12:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by bgmom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋