I found 2 pictures of my husband with his cousins ex girlfriend. It was taken at his cousins house, by a third person. He was sitting on the couch hugging her in one photo and in the other he was almost siting in her lap hugging her. Should I bring it up to him? Is it something to make an argument about?
2007-02-12 11:46:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it was on his cousins digital camera, so no date. His cousin and the girl were still going out at this time, they justbroke up 2 weeks ago.
2007-02-12 11:55:55 · update #1
I may depend in part, on how old the picture is.
2007-02-12 11:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something to talk about definitely. I don't like ignoring things and it seems you don't either. Bring it up for sure and do you see the dates on the picture. That can help determine if it was a while ago or more recent.
2007-02-12 19:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would be mad...it would be better if there was a date on it. Well i would ask him when this happened,but if he gets all mad then just break down and say that all you wanted to know was when this picture was taken. Or you can ask your husband's cousin's x when it was taken. I know i would be a real b**** to her.
2007-02-12 19:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say he`s cheating, I have lots of pictures where I am with friends, my husbands friends and it usually doesnt mean nothing. But if you are really curious just say " hey I found these pics, looks like you guys were having a fun night" and see what he says.
2007-02-12 20:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by mythoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, hugging a cousin's g/f for a photo is not cheating. Get a life please. Sounds like you have other reasons not to trust your husband that have nothing to do with this photograph - if so, address these issues without wasting time on ******** and semantics. But if a photograph is all you have on him - consider yourself lucky.
2007-02-12 20:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't hurt to ask. I would just bring it up casually and in a non-accusatory way. It could be perfectly innocent. But you will be able to tell from his reaction what the deal is.
2007-02-12 20:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would first question what he did (the day that photo was taken) and then second talk to the person who took dat pictures (if u know who) and then just go up to him and ask.
2007-02-12 19:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be....you cheat with your heart. If you are asking this question then you have had other reasons to suspect his fidelity to you. If he has not given you a reason in the past to question him, then stop being paranoid. File it away.
2007-02-12 19:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by badsanta40 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to ask... but I'd say it was probably just Innocent fun
2007-02-12 19:49:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask about it, you will be able to tell by his first reaction if it a innocent or not.
2007-02-12 19:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋