Do you think a 'gay community' spirit that 'celebrates diversity' really exists?

Question

If a gay guy is not interested in me sexually he will ignore me in a bar and not want to even be my friend. Where is the gay 'community' in that?

Answer 1

That's cause you're at a bar. ;) I think that such a community does exist, but it's less of a "gay community" and more of a "leftist / political community". The "gay community", ESPECIALLY in bars, is really friggin' shallow. Because bars tend to be shallow. Join some other groups, you might surprise yourself.