Under stress l left a relationship....but still thinking about him since them....he doens´t talk to me neither asnwer the phone...l really want to write him a letter at least to say the way I feel....
2007-02-12 11:23:33 · 7 answers · asked by Bee B. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go find him and see if he feels like that too
2007-02-15 15:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can really relate to you. I've put myself out there like this before. The reason I had to get it out was just to let him know and release it. This is really natural to feel this way..you must really love this guy. I think you should write the letter and say everything you want. Maybe your honesty will break through what ever feels are keeping him from at least taking a call from you. But don't be totally banking on it. You should do it for healing purposes.
2007-02-12 19:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by GoldenGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree...if hes married or in a relationship...dont go there...
otherwise...a letter couldnt hurt...at least you can pour out your feelings without interuption and he then will have the ball...he then can make that choice to contact you or not..knowing how you feel....but be ready to accept whatever choice he makes...if you dont hear from him then its time to just let time do its course and wait for the feelings to subside....
and speaking of experience they do subside...or you find someone better.....many times what we are still in love with or holding onto are ideas of the realtionship or the lonlyness that comes....
good luck!!
2007-02-12 19:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Berge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always try, i guess, but it sounds like that ship has sailed, hit an iceberg, sank, been salvaged, caught on fire from multiple lightning strikes, and sank again.
He probably will never be able to trust you enough to let you get close enough to hurt him again.
2007-02-12 19:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. Write him a letter. Don't be hurt if he doesn't respond the way you want him too.
2007-02-12 19:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by time2smile2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married or engaged, forget it. Otherwise, if you are single and he is, go for it. I had the same situation, but had to leave it alone, sometimes we just have to suffer for the peace of someone else.
2007-02-12 19:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by roncarolhillsstupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl if he is not taking your calls it is time to find a new love if he wont even answer the phone then i think it is over
2007-02-12 19:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by shellanddrew2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋