Are there any swinger bars or clubs in Washington State?

Question

My husband and I are new to the lifestyle but we don't know where to look or how to meet people.

Answer 1

That's what Google is for. (Well, I guess you could use Yahoo too since you are using their Q&A forum.)

Answer 2

My wife and I didn't want to be swingers either. After a little time and husband/wife bonding...we are having fun with it. Consider the following.. First and foremost, if both of you have expressed an interest in the "swinger lifestyle" then that is the first step. Secondly you both need to talk about what you may or may not be interested in. Last but not least, be honest! My wife and I entertained the idea over a year ago. We started off really slow and talked openly (without judgments) and realized we had vivid sexual imaginations. So we visited a swing club. People at swing clubs are generally very respectful and very nice. Remember, there are other open minded people there and they have the same respect for your boundaries as you would have of theirs. We only played with each other our first time which was no disappointment by any means. It was nice to have good conversation with like minded adults and we also learned how much we were turned on by other good looking couples showing interest in us. You honestly can't get upset when you talk to a good looking couple and the man is checking out your wife..when you are more than likely checking out that mans wife..and so on. Just smile and be grateful that you two are considered "hot" Now, all you have to say at swinger clubs when others show an interest is "we are new to this and just checking things out, so right now we aren't ready" Case closed, you two will be respected for that. Swing clubs generally do not allow single men so the meat market effect should be non-existent. There will be plenty of opportunity for voyeurism if that's what interests you. My wife and I are in the swing lifestyle, we don't partake frequently. We like to have that kind of fun as we have time and desire. We are now considered a full swap couple. We have become much closer to each other and have a greater appreciation for one another as well. So it's been a positive experience for us. I would say go and have an open mind and have fun with your wife. Otherwise, there is plenty of porn on the internet to explore your sexual adventures.

Answer 3

Check out some websites like http://www.swinglifestyle.com, http://www.swappernet.com, http://www.swingular.com as well as The Swingers Board http://www.swingersboard.com . All have club listings by State.

Answer 4

very interesting question

Answer 5

Here are a few places for you to check out.

New Horizons: PO Box 2188, Lynnwood, WA 98036; 425-745-3156; Fax: [phone]; Email: [e-mail] ; Web: www.horizonsclub.com. On-premises parties. Couples only. Extensive facilities/grounds with accommodations available. Open Wednesday, Saturday and multiple days on holiday weekends. Newsletter available. EOLO NASCA [1736]


Original Circles of the Northwest: PO Box 58521, Seattle, WA 98138; [phone] Email: [e-mail];
Web: www.original-circles.com or http://www.original-circles.com/campout_2003.html Original Circles is the longest running social club in the Pacific Northwest. We have dances the 2nd & 4th Saturdays of the month. Music by a DJ, theme dances, mix, coffee & snacks provided. Dances are from 8:00 pm - 12:00 am. We sponsor a week long Campout the 4th week of July for couples only. Requirements to be a member are to attend an orientation before your first dance, then attend 6 paid functions. We are an off-site swing club. EOLO NASCA [1742]

The Club Select: Liz & Mark, Everett, WA. [phone], E-mail:[e-mail] Web:http://www.theclubselect.net A private retreat providing an 'ON PREMISES' Adult Social Club for those with open attitudes and relationships, located in North Seattle Area. On-premises parties. Couples only. Extensive facilities/grounds with accommodations available. Open Thursday, Friday, Saturday and multiple days on holiday weekends. NASCA [5238]


HUGS!: Bob & Denise, PO Box 142025, Spokane, WA 99214-2025; 509-921-1973; Email: [e-mail]; Web: www.hugsclub.com. Monthly dances on the 1st Saturday of each month. Annual camping event - Hugfest - 2nd weekend in June. Periodic weekend getaways, excursions, parties, and comedy night. Off premise. Couples only. Must be 21. EOLO NASCA [3360]


Desert Delights: Rich or Betty PO Box 4506, Pasco,WA. 99301-4506, [phone] E-mail:[e-mail] Web:http://www.geocities.com/desertdelightsclub Delights is a Social club, hosting, Dances (on premise area), Dances-play parties, house parties, camping trips and other events throughout the year. See our Website for information. We are a couples group, you must be 21 or older to join. We accept other NASCA memberships for visitors to any event. NASCA [5146]

Northwest Xchange Club Inc: Seattle Washington [phone], E-mail:[e-mail] Web:http://www.NWXchange.com
We are Northwest Xchange Club, an adult 'couples' social club in the Seattle metro area. NWX is a comfortable, friendly, on-premise couples social club. Our facility is theme decorated and has a boutique decor. In the grand-room we have cocktail style tables and cozy corners with comfortable couches and a large dance floor. Playspace is inviting, immaculate, and both group and private space is available. Typically 30-45 couples attend Saturday night events. Quality hotels and restaurants nearby. Nonresidential area. Plenty of free parking. NWX is where discriminating, adventurous, secure adult couples enhance their relationship, experience alternative lifestyles, and pursue the pleasure of the senses without pressure or obligations. New Guests: Email for reservation, you will be provided location,event, and membership information. NASCA [5221]


Love Lounge: Seattle, WA. Web:http://www.lovelounge.net Love Lounge Seattle is the Pacific Northwest's premier adult social club for beautiful bi femmes and the most discriminating swingers in the Seattle/Puget Sound area. We are an exclusive "private membership" adult social club for consenting adults 21 and over . Love Lounge members gather a few times a month in and around Seattle for food, drink, merriment, flirtation and a little sensual indulgence. ;-) As for the "swinging" aspect of our gatherings, we make NO promises. We are here to provide the most delightful introductions in Seattle in an elegant, private, discreet, totally safe, "no pressure" environment. NASCA [5304]



Club Passions: Sandy & Stephen, PO Box 29958 Bellingham, WA. 98228 [phone], E-mail:[e-mail] Web:http://www.clubpassionsnw.com Club Passions ~ Is a Dance & Social Club for mature adults who enjoy honest & loving relationships of other mature adults in the alternate lifestyle. From Canada to California we have many people from all over & thats what makes Club Passions a very fun group of people. Club Passions was established so that honest loving couples & singles have a way of gathering to meet old friends & new friends in the lifestyle without the fear of crossing those boundaries. We hold a brief orientation prior to each dance. We sponsor other events & parties occasionally. $25.00 admission fee per couple with no membership fees. Doors open at 7PM, dance starts at 8PM & closes at midnight. Off-premise club, minimum age 21 to enter. NASCA (5330)

Club TSS: Rich or Ron, Tri Cities/Yakima, WA. [phone], E-mail:[e-mail] Web:http://www.clubtss.com New to the lifestyle or seasoned veterans, we hope you'll visit us soon for a sensual, exciting evening of dancing and socializing, reuniting with old friends and meeting new ones, in a great location with plenty of seating and a huge dance floor. We provide delicious hot and cold hors d’oeuvres, a very reasonable cash bar, DJ for sexy dancing, icebreakers, and plenty of fun for all. Our off-premises dance socials give you the opportunity to meet other couples and singles that share your interests in a comfortable, safe, no-pressure atmosphere. Our dances are open to couples, single ladies, and ONLY a limited number of single gentlemen that are SPONSORED BY A COUPLE. Couples that wish to sponsor a single gentlemen MUST make prior arrangements as the number of single men will be limited! Everyone must be over the age of 21. Please be prepared to provide photo I.D. when checking in. NASCA (TBD)