Why? What keeps you in each others lives?
2007-02-12 11:20:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am never friends with my x's because sex always gets in the way and then old feelings show up...it become a real mess, so i just take it out all together.
2007-02-12 11:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, our kids keep us in each other's lives. Also, my mom {laughing}. The first Xmas after our divorce, mom invited my ex to our family Xmas. I told her it might be kind of weird for both him and me, but she insisted he had to be there to watch the kids open their presents. I'm like....ummmm...mom...the kids are in their 20's!!! {laughing} I think they can open a gift on their own. But she insisted. It's been 7 years now, and he still comes every Xmas.
He also sees my family at least 3-4 times a month. I moved out of town when I remarried, so now my ex sees my kids and mom more than I do!
2007-02-13 01:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big Negative! We are civil, I guess you would say because of the kids. But most of the time I have to communicate with his wife, because he won't talk to me. Which I guess is okay, as long as the houselholds can communicate in regards to the kids. Time may fix some of the bitterness, but there will never be a point where I say that we coud be friends. It is what it is.
2007-02-12 19:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are reasons why they are now ex. I no longer befriended with them as soon as the realtionship is over. For what? There's nothing good for me or them. If they're so great they wouldn't be my ex. I have enough guy friends that I never slept with.
2007-02-12 19:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls most of the time always want too be friends with the guy post breakup.
But if you were a total dousche to her, she wont want to.
If the guy doesn't attempt to keep a friendship going;
she won't think you're interested.
2007-02-12 19:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by leelee. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't talk to any ex....
Why...because I feel that those are ties in your life that dictate and/or control other aspects of your life...even future relationships....
So, people say that they can handle it, but I say that what is the point of talking to someone that you were intimately involved with (whether emotionally or physically or both)....There is no point in continually linking yourself to past relationships....when you are trying to move on with your life....
2007-02-12 19:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by LIFECOACH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - mutual respect for each other we work better at being friends than we did being lovers
2007-02-12 19:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. because we still care about each other in some way or another. it may be romantically or just as a friend.
2007-02-12 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, you get 16-year-olds piping in with answers here like they have a clue.
2007-02-12 19:41:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, ive been hurt enough times by him.
2007-02-12 19:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋