My friend is very spoiled. She has to get everything she wants. She also doesn't care for other people. One day my friend was crying and she just told her to get over it in a harsh way. But, the thing is if we tell her that she was being mean she'll get real emotional and cry for the rest of the day!!! And we don't want to just leave her and not be friends anymore. So, if you could help me out, that would really be appreciated!!!
2007-02-12 11:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off if you correct her and she cries, tell her to get over it. Don't crumble to her crying or so called hurt feelings. She probably didn't have hurt feelings, she was just mad because you didn't agree with her.
keep letting her know when she wrongs you, and don't back down for her crying. She needs friends who love her that is for sure. She just don't need friends that spoil her, she's evidently got parents that do that for her.
When you do tell her yo need to do it with conficence in yourselves and your rights, but you can't be harsh. Tell her the situation and give it a few minutes to let it sink in then go about your normal friend things with her
2007-02-12 11:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She acts like a 6 year old kid... And what do moms do to their crying brats? Ignore them lol.. Spoiled kids should learn their lessons.
But of course after that let her know that you still love her and stuffs, so she wont be that heartbroken. Also let her know that what she's doing is wrong and stuffs. Sit everybody down and you know, have a best friends conversation.. Talk about her problem and everyone else's problem, that way she wont feel cornered. Good luck!!
2007-02-12 19:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by justanickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my brother is the same way exect for the crying part!! yeah what you needa do is tell her stright up that shes being a brat and if she crys then let her she needs to learn! so if she wants to be ur friend then she'll come back and say sorry if not then ur freed from her bratness
2007-02-12 19:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok my friend Is the same way but not cry all day.
Ok if your tired of this just try to ovided her becasue its the best thing to telll her how you feel.
It may hurt so just tell her if she could be a lil nicer if that dont work email me at sunshine_star13@yahoo.com since we are going trough the same
2007-02-12 19:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know what the problem is and how it is affecting your friendship. If she gets an attitude, ignore her until she calms down and thinks about it. If she does not change her behavior, find another friend. Why do you want to keep a selfish friend?
2007-02-12 19:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by doris_basanta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend is like that tell her that and ya dont tell her to harshly i learned that the hard way just tell her that she needs to be a little bit more carring and that she is making ppl mad and just casually tell her that well good luck!!
2007-02-12 19:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heLLoo^^
hmmm....quite a spoiler she is
just tell her greatfully that she's acting kinda over with all the
situation...
i think this is a good way to tell a person ya^^
hope that i can help you, and thanks for reading my opinion
2007-02-12 19:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋