People i have a problem ... im a gay guy and my problem is that i *** really fast and i cant get my dick hard on again ... im 22 years old and this problem showed up last month does that mean im not attracted to my partner any more or is it a phisicall i doubt the attraction thing because i still think he is so hot ... thnx alot for your help
2007-02-12 11:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by Jim1984 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
maybe you are bored with whatever he is doing. tell him to try something new. and also, go to a doctor, because there could be something wrong down there
2007-02-12 11:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by holymonx 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just need to relax. Our bodies sometimes need a rest. Try back rubs, massage, and other 'together' activities without worrying about it leading to sex.
If you stress out about this, it'll make it worse.
If things don't get better in a few weeks time, schedule an appointment with your doctor - he has dealt with this issue before, and will have good advice to offer you.
Do not be tempted to take Viagra or other drugs - that is not going to fix the problem.
2007-02-12 11:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not suppose to get hard again. Once your done, thats it. Go on an antidepressant like prozac or paxil and you will be able to last longer. But this is normal for a 22 year old. Do it again later in the day or the next day.
2007-02-12 11:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rockford 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to practice restraint. You need to learn about your body and how it reacts. Bring yourself close to climax, then stop for awhile, then repeat a few times, trying to go longer each time, until you build up your stamina. It will take practice, but unless you have a medical problem, it can be done. Mind over matter.....
2007-02-12 11:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're stressing too much, dude.
Relax.
Next time you're with him, just pretend there's not going to be sex. This will help you relax & enjoy yourself. Then you'll be fine.
2007-02-12 11:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra!
2007-02-12 11:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by silver 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
viagra
2007-02-12 11:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by No I Dont Like You 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dontyou talk to your doctor.
2007-02-12 11:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not really gay. Stop faking it.
2007-02-12 11:04:31 · answer #9 · answered by Christopher A 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋