He's in my class, and he puts me in these really embarrasses me sometimes. He's made fun of me for 3 years and he even yells at me during practice. He says embarrassing things about me that aren't true (like that I go out w/ my friend's brother) and that I don't know how to run. He makes fun of me anytime I play a sport and I just don't know what to do anymore. Ignoring him and telling him to stop have never ever worked. Please help! thanks!
2007-02-12 10:45:35 · 17 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And I know some people will say that he likes me. Guess what? He doesn't. In fact he probably hates me. He's just a horrible person. He makes fun of everybody and made my friend cry. I just need him to stop doing these things to me.
2007-02-12 10:46:59 · update #1
i have a feeling the guy has a lot of physical things you could make fun of, team up with those including your friend and launch an all out verbal attack on him. every time he does something make fun of him, the way he looks the way he talks, the way he runs, plays ball etc. and he will retaliate by saying nastier stuff about you but just respond with 'is that it? is that all you got?' and laugh (even if it hurts you) ridicule him, he will get angrier and angrier but the thing is if you don't stand up to him he will continually harass you and your friends. he's a bully with a chip on his shoulder and the only way to deal with him is to hand it right back. now if he becomes physical with you or your friends or threatens you report him to the school authorities, if its not at school then tell your parents and get the police involved if necessary. if he harasses you by phone then record him and use it against him. the problem is most ppl aren't as mean and nasty as he is so they don't stand up to him which makes him bolder and more sure he can get away with bullying ppl. once someone and preferably others stand up to him he will at least be put on notice that he isn't getting away with anymore. just make sure if you decide to stand up to him you follow through and don't run at the first nasty word from him. one important thing you can do is make your parents and those in authority aware of the situation, don't be embarassed in the world today you cannot ignore idiots like this as they can be dangerous. good luck.
2007-02-12 10:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by ?! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hun you need to report him. I would first try the schools authority and if that doesn't work, then go to the law and file harassment charges...because this is called HARASSMENT. And that behavior is NOT to be tolerated. That kind of behavior is what has prompted some kids to snap and causes tragedies like the liliton school shooting (not saying that you would ever do that). That may be an extreme example but his behavior can cause some serious troubles. We all deserve to have a happy care free life and NO ONE has the right to infringe on that.
Hope this helps you out Hun. Hugs
2007-02-12 10:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where in the hell is your teacher and why hasn't he/she stopped this jerk. Nobody can learn anything with this harrassment going on. Talk to your teacher and if that doesn't solve it, go to the counselor. If that doesn't work, go to the principal. Take your parents with you. It's their tax money that pays the teacher, counselor, principal, as well as the utility bills for the school, school supplies, maintenance pay, etc. etc. etc. Don't stop until you get results!
2007-02-12 10:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to your principal and tell her/him that if does not stop you are going to get an anti-harassment order against him. You do not need to take this. Talk with your parents and the principal and see if it can be resolved that way. If not get a restraining order for the creep.
Good Luck!
2007-02-12 10:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Should be Working! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time he says something go right up to him, unless your in the middle of something, then afterwards. tell him to stop doing that because it has gone too far and you've had enough. then go off and tell a teacher. don't care if ppl think you're a tattle tale, hes been doing this for way too long.
2007-02-12 10:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easiest way is to agree with everything they say but knowing in the back of your head its not true. Trust me though, if you just say I know and yeah I am fat and stupid and ugly they won't find it fun anymore. My brother used to call me a fag or gay all the time and every time I would just agree with him, he doesn't do it anymore. They are doing because they probably feel like you act above them now so they are defensive. My brother is extremely defensive. But theres nothing for them to say if your just going to agree. They might try at first to comeback at you but it won't work.
2016-05-24 02:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out the most horrible things hes every done im embrassing and yell that out in the middle of class or if you have an older male that would be welling to beat the crap out of him hope this helps
2007-02-12 10:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_see_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell you coach tell some one he is a bully and needs to be taken down a peg or two or three maybe four seriously tell whoever is in charge of practice whats going on he has gotten away with it for so long that now it is just normal to him
2007-02-12 10:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he likes u dats a fact cuz no boy can make fun of a gurl for 3 years and not like her.he might act like that to hide his feeling he's probably not an emotional person.find some durt on him and do the same thing he does and he might leave u alone
2007-02-12 10:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go right up to him and say "Ya know what your pissing me off alright,STOP befor i pop a cap up ya ***!!"
thats what u have to say to him and if he dosent stop use your musiles from sports a beat the **** out of him
hehe good luck!
2007-02-12 10:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋