Ive been with this guy for 6 months.You have NO idea how good he and I are together.Weve never had an argument ONCE. We have the same taste in movies,same taste in music.we make each other laugh.Ive never been in love before.Our story is romantic,I love telling it to people.He's always there for me&Im always there for him.Everyone says we're PERFECT.He asked me to marry him.You may think its going too fast,it wasnt.If you saw how much we are in love,you wouldnt be shocked.I found out early January that he's been seeing a girl for about a month.He asked me to give him time before he breaks up with her.He never did.He hasnt talked to me since Jan 27th.I still love him.I cant eat and I cant sleep.When I do sleep,I cry myself to sleep.My friends think Im pathetic&he wont talk to me.He lives 7000 miles away.I still love him so much!Im a wreck.He says its not my fault,that it just happened&said he loves me.He doesnt talk to me anymore.How can I get over him? *sobs* I WANT TO DIE RIGHT NOW!
2007-02-12 10:20:52 · 6 answers · asked by Silent Soul 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thank u for ur answers.look,I know a long distance relationship is hard,but I LOVED him.I wanted to make it work.People tell me Im cute& get asked out a lot but I always give a polite "no" &explain that I have a fiance&that I love him.His ex-gf cheated on him 4 times.He knows how much it sucks.So why did he do it?Is sex more important than love?I just want 2 tell u all that I can never love again.Love is when u give ur heart&soul out 2 someone&trust them 2 never break it.I cant get over him.I cant get over what he did 2 me.I cant forgive him 4 letting me cry myself 2 sleep.I cant forgive him 4 the heart attack I got when I found out he doesnt want me.I know I was a person before I met him,but what he did killed my spirit,Im not kidding.He's the only person I ever trusted wholeheartedly&he betrayed me.I know I have depression but if u read my other question,u'd know I cant get therapy.I hate feeling like this.I wish I'd get amnesia.I cant live with this heart ache.I wish I never loved.
2007-02-13 02:15:11 · update #1
Just a couple of ideas for you.
First, why hurt yourself, what would that solve? It would only deprive both you and some special person the chance to meet.
Second, it sounds like you have tasted love, a rare gift. Treasure it since it takes time to develop and mature.
Lastly, believe in yourself to accept those unpleasant days that follow bad times, it makes you know the good times. Give yourself all the time you need to heal, you will find that special person a lot easier when you aren't looking than when you are. Smile and be brave, true friends will be there to help you ou when you believe in yourself.
Best wishes and good luck.
2007-02-12 13:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gary M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As much as you feel like dying, I don't recommend it. It wont solve anything, it wont solve your problems, it wont make your boyfriend come running. (He especially wont be running because you wouldn't be alive).
7000 miles is a long distance relationship. I haven't heard of many of those that have worked (previous experience). The distance is the thing that usually kills the relationship.
I know it hurts, but time heals all wounds.
You will be okay. You will pick yourself up, and you will live.
2007-02-12 15:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by revoltix 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 01:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey the only thing that will help you is time...and as much as it sucks it may take a long time....
just breath and take each day as it comes...try to keep busy and not to think of it too much...
you were person on yur own before him and you will continue to be a person after him...no one is worth your life ever...
2007-02-12 12:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Berge 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no guy is worth youre tears i have been through it before and i was about to kill myself but some how my school found out and they talked to me and got me some help and believe me girl if he really loved you he wouldnt of hurt you like that so find some one new that really loves you.
2007-02-13 02:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by la loca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek therapy. YOu sound unbalanced. You think this jack *** jerk loves you???? He is seeing someone else and is busy with them so he doesnt think your as good as you think he is. MOVE ON and with a heart so loving like yours you will find someone very nice.
2007-02-12 15:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by jennyve25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋